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Old 06-24-2004, 08:51 PM   #16
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I'm so sorry your "friend" didn't have the courage or whatever you may call it to talk to you about how she felt. Just remember that you were a very kind and helpful friend to them-they were the ones who didn't know how to act! That makes you a better person than them.

I just recently went through a similar thing with people at work. I had worked at a daycare with the babies for almost 7 yrs. when I had an emergency that required surgery. Anyway, I ended up being out of work for 5 1/2 months. I was essentially legally blind for that time and needed 2 surgeries to correct my vision. Not only did no one come over to help me with cooking, etc. but when I took my note from the dr. to return to work, they never called me back! The director there told a mutual friend that she had no place to put me. The last straw came when I ran into a co-worker and she told me about being out with her sick baby for a week and how everyone came by with dinners and help with the baby. I thought, "Where were these people when I couldn't see to make myself a sandwich?"

It hurt for a long time, but now I'm working somewhere else and trying to move on. It's been almost 2 months since I last talked to them and no one has bothered to call to see how I'm doing.

Just know how much we all care about you and that it will get easier with time.

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Old 06-24-2004, 09:12 PM   #17
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Robyn,

So sorry that this happened. I also have a friend that dropped me for no reason. I have determined that it is her loss, too, and I did nothing wrong.

You have plenty of friends here if you need us!
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Old 06-24-2004, 10:57 PM   #18
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Robin, I'm sorry to hear about that. Maybe you are better off without people who treat others like that. Here's some , and I hope you feel better. (I hope it felt some better just by talking about it--if you ever need to vent again, we're here for you! )
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Old 06-25-2004, 07:51 AM   #19
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Old 06-25-2004, 09:36 AM   #20
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Robin that is terrible. I am so sorry you are going through this but I think like some others have said you are better off without them. It sounds like Mandy at least was almost taking advantage of your loyalty and kindness. I hope you are feeling better soon.
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Robyn, I'm right here in Lansing if you ever need to talk to someone face-to-face. PM me, if you want to, and I'll email you my phone #. It would be nice to get together with a fellow Passporter right here in town.
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I'm sorry you were treated so badly by your "friend" .
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I am SO sorry to hear about all of this . . . I have had a couple of friends "ditch" without a word or warning, so I kind of know where you are coming from. I can't believe the truth came to light in a letter!!! A bit 8th grade!!! I think it was a bit immature of her to not have even sent the letter herself, but to make her husband do it for her!!!

Like everyone else has said, true friends ARE the ones who stick around. We've all got your back!!!
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Robin - I am so sorry to hear about this
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Old 06-28-2004, 11:01 AM   #25
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where do some people get off thinking they can treat someone like that is what i'd like to know! stupid buttheads! You're better off without someone like that in your life and here's some pixie dust to help you heal and move on. man it just burns my butt when people treat others like crap
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