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Old 07-08-2008, 09:25 AM   #16
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Chantel, I'm so glad you mentioned this. I'm very aware of this fact - and I've always tried to encourage my kids to speak up for themselves and follow their feelings, and that just because someone is an adult, doesn't mean they have to do everything they tell them (I'm sure you all know what I'm referring to by this, but it goes for a lot of other things, too.)
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Not at all! I understood what you meant perfectly. (I like a girl who isn't afraid to say what she thinks. )
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I gave a little smirk when you said Cory talked back a little - she sounds like a real fire cracker (the best way to be )!! But give yourself some credit - you have raised girls who feel very confident to take a stand and voice their opinions. This is the perfect opportunity for you to coach them through deciphering the fine line between being confident and standing up for your POV, and using excuses to not face your fears. I give you all the credit in the world, Cathy... this is a tough, and slightly abstract lesson to teach and you sound like you're handling it really, really well!
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I'm glad the instructor came over to talk to you. I had an issue with one of DS's swimming instructors yelling at the kids. The kids were only about 3 and 4 years old and some of them, including DS, still didn't want to float on their back and put their ears in the water. All the parents in the viewing area could hear the instructor yelling at the kids. I was not happy. I talked to the director and let her know how I felt and that the particular instructor shouldn't be working with such young children if he couldn't be patient with them. I also pulled DS out of the class. For the next few classes I always asked who the instructor would be before signing him up. We never had another problem.
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My daughter was very stubborn and when she took swim lessons at age 6, she refused to let go of the metal ladder on the side of the pool (in the shallow end, not over her head). Her instructor only had 2 kids in her session so she would've had a lot of individualized attention, had she let go of the ladder! But, she repeatedly told the teacher she wasn't ready to do "that" and the teacher let her cling to her ladder. I decided that maybe she just wasn't ready, so we waited a few years, and then she let me teach her and she learned how to swim a lap across the pool in a day. Every child is different and their fears, no matter if they are unfounded or not, are very real to them. I also am in favor of a child who stands their ground in a polite way.

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I gave a little smirk when you said Cory talked back a little - she sounds like a real fire cracker (the best way to be )!! But give yourself some credit - you have raised girls who feel very confident to take a stand and voice their opinions. This is the perfect opportunity for you to coach them through deciphering the fine line between being confident and standing up for your POV, and using excuses to not face your fears.
Ohh, but you sound like YOU have some good ideas on this 'teachable moment' - please, please, please - share!! (In other words.... "Help!!!!" )
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...then she let me teach her....
This is sooo great - Unfortunately, I have discovered with my DS there are certain things I HAVE to turn over to someone else to do. I'm thinking that swimming is one of them. That is why I signed him up for lessons. I will have to just back off and let the instructor take charge. It's going to be hard, but I've managed with other activities so I'll manage with this!
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DS1 was very slow to warm to new things as a young child. He frustrated former husband when at 18 months, he refused to even put his big toe in the kiddie pool. I let him lead the way, knowing he took time before he acted. By 6 he was doing OK at lessons, by 10 an accomplished swimmer and spent high school and summers as a Lifeguard/Swim Instructor. His only regret he says now is we never pushed him to compete. He also got top reviews as an instructor, I think in part because he understood the kids who wouldn't just jump in.

When your DD's are ready, they will learn to swim. Just give them time and encouragement. I never let DS skip lessons and if he wanted to sit by the side of the pool and watch when he was a preschooler that was OK. I was very particular about who taught him and made sure they would not push.

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