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Old 02-26-2002, 01:07 PM   #1
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Am I missing something here?

One of my students drove to school today. She didn't want to walk in the cold and wind (it was 5º below this morning).

So, what's wrong with a student driving to school, you ask?

I teach middle school. The girl is 12.

Her mom didn't see a problem with her daughter driving on snow-packed roads. She didn't understand why the principal called our School Resource Officer. In fact, the daughter often drives to the store, her mother informed us.

Am I missing something here? Since when is it okay for a 12-year-old to drive a car?

Sorry, I had to rant here.

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Old 02-26-2002, 01:15 PM   #2
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Re: Am I missing something here?

OH MY!!

I've heard of kids younger than 16 getting licences to drive farm equipment on the roads in rural areas, but that certainly isn't the case here.

Seems like the Mom hasn't a clue. If you CAN do it, then she MAY do it according to her, I guess.
Let us know if anything else comes of this. Inquiring minds love this stuff. [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img] -HiddenMickey
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Re: Am I missing something here?

Outrageous, and terribly irresponsible for her mother.
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Since when? Since it was inconvenient for the parent to drive the child herself! Since the parent was too lazy, too frazzled, too overbooked and overextended to go to the store herself.

Basically, since the parent became to "me centered" to understand that she's not only placing her daughter at risk, but every other driver on the road who happens to be in the vicinity of her daughter's car.

All this lady sees is that it's just easier to hand her daughter the car keys, and let her take care of herself.

Makes you wonder what else this little girl has to take care of herself, doesn't it?
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Unbelievable

Kinda makes you wonder what else this 12 year old thinks is OK to be doing at age 12. With and without the Mom's say so. [img]graemlins/pout.gif[/img]
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Unbelievable [img]images/icons/mad.gif[/img]
When this child gets into other trouble I suppose it will be someone else's fault that is if she lives that long. My DSs were close to 17 before they got their permits. When the roads were bad we either drove them or they stayed home (after school activities). They rode the bus to and from school otherwise.
It's so sad that anyone can have a child but there is no lience about raising them.
Does this "mother" have a husband? If so is he as bad a parent as the "mother"?
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Forti, I'm not surprised. I read a story in the paper a couple of weeks ago about a 7 year old who was pulled over. The officer discovered the boy's father in the passenger seat - too drunk to drive. The father said he let the boy drive occasionally as a reward for good behavior! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img]
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Well, you can at least say this with the 12 year old.. She actually came to school. I mean, handed a car by an apparently unconcerned parent? A lot of children would have ditched school.. if not made off for Mexico.. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Seriously, at least the girl has managed to retain some bizarre sense of responsibility (although, I would suggest she turn down free use of the car the next time it's offered to her [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif[/img] ). Hopefully someone will help her get her life straightened out.

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Whoa! I was so stunned by what you wrote I had to go back and read it again to make sure I got it right. Ya know, I don't even know what to type, I'm just speechless! The only thing I can think of to say to this mother?!?! person is "Duhhhh"!
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Re: Am I missing something here?

Ok I'm 35 and my mom wont let me drive in the snow!(I'm still learning)i can't belive a mom would let a 12yr old drive in it. [img]graemlins/dizzy.gif[/img]
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I was reading your post with my mouth hanging open! I can't believe what I just read. I have a 12 year old son who I barely leave alone, much less drive the car! I can't even think about what should happen to this "Mom" for allowing it.
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Old 02-26-2002, 07:23 PM   #12
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What is wrong with this mother??? Letting your 12 year old drive?

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This was not the first time this girl has been caught...She and a friend were pulled over at 3 a.m. a few weekends ago.

Unfortunately, irresponsible parents are not uncommon these days. Just ask your child's teachers. While this is a first, this is not the first time we have seen a parent think their child's behavior is perfectly acceptable. It makes me wonder how some of our students survive.
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Yikes.

Holy schmoly.

Are you serious?!

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Re: Am I missing something here?

Unfortunately, as DH and I are both Educators, your story only mildly shocked me. It is amazing what parents will do to justify their child's or their own behavior. Now 12 is pretty young but when we lived in SW KS, children at that time could get their licenses at 14. This was a throw back to the days that most children needed to drive for farming. Of course most kids did not need to do this and you should have seen the new cars that they got for 8th Grade Graduation.

The students were only "suppose" to drive to and from work and school. However, most parents thought this was a great idea and it ended their chauffering days. I hope that I never get that careless with my childrens lives or that lazy!

It sounds as if your students "mother" just wants the child to stay out of her life. How sad. [img]graemlins/pout.gif[/img]

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