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Old 10-02-2006, 11:13 AM   #1
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Hello all. I'm feeling pretty blue today. My loud talking co-worker that sits behind me is getting ready to have her first baby (she's the same age as me) and that's all she can talk about to anyone who will walk by. We work in a small office, so that means that me and one other co-worker don't have children. It's not that I'm feeling "left out", I guess it's just grating on me. My hubby and I don't have children right now (we did get married later in life) and I don't want to start a family while we're still living in an apartment. However, houses, etc cost money and we're saving while trying to live :-) So, if we do have kids, great, and if not, that's fine too. Maybe we'll adopt. Also, my supervisor just bought a concession trailer to sell food at festivals to make extra money. Which is great for her, but my dream is to do catering and I just haven't taken off yet. (My plan is to buy a house in a smaller community and set up there. I'd have a better chance instead of trying to start a fledgling business in an already saturated market here). So, that's depressing too. On a lighter note (no pun intended) I've lost 7 pounds on WW so far (been on for 2 months). Not much but it's a start. Thanks for listening. I can't seem to pull myself out of my mood!
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Don't sweat it. There are people in every office who like to trumpet their goings-on. I ignore those people in my office and suggest you try to do the same.
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I'm not sure what's worse- the chronic complainers, or the ones who brag. Try to refocus on something that's positive in YOUR life. Your 7 pounds is definitely something to be proud of! What you are doing in your life now should be by choice so you shouldn't let someone else make you feel down about the choices you've made.
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Hang in there Sandra, and congrats on the weight loss!
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Don't sweat it. There are people in every office who like to trumpet their goings-on. I ignore those people in my office and suggest you try to do the same.
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Don't sweat it. There are people in every office who like to trumpet their goings-on. I ignore those people in my office and suggest you try to do the same.
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[img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] I'm sorry you are feeling down. Whenever I get to feeling like that, I try to focus on the things in my own life that make ME happy, like an upcoming trip or something that I've done that I'm proud of or that has carried me one step closer to a goal. A quote that I use a lot (from the movie Elizabethtown) is "All forward motion counts". To me, that means that any thing I do, even if it's the smallest, most seemingly insignificant thing, counts as movement toward my goal. Your 7 lb weight loss is AWESOME, it's at a healthy rate and it's baby steps that will keep it off. Your savings are moving you closer with every penny to your new home and the beginning of your catering business. Another thing I do when I feel this way is to write out plans. I keep a notebook that I jot down ideas or even details about what I have in mind. Sometimes it's fun to go back and look at how things are panning out and some of the wild ideas I've had, but focusing on my own dreams and goals really helps when someone else is bragging about their own successes.
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I SOOOOO Know you feel! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/082502yes_prv.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/082502yes_prv.gif[/img] Last week I had someone make me feel pretty worthless. She said that I had no right saying anything about babies or children because I didn’t have any. She added the word “ignorant” which not only enraged me but made me defensive. Instead of saying something nasty to her I actually felt a bit sorry for her. Alot of people with kids forget what it is like NOT to have kids. When people start talking about things their children do I talk about my dog Belle. If people don't like it tough...she IS MY child! I love her as much as I would a child and honestly she acts ALOT better then some children!

I know it is hard but don’t even let anyone make you feel worthless. Just think you are so much more free not having kids right now. You are smart to wait! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/flowerred.gif[/img] Cheer up...if you ever need to talk feel free to IM me! BTW [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/waytogo.gif[/img] On your weight loss! That is great and you have every right to brag!
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