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Old 09-22-2016, 01:16 PM   #1
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Mom in freak-out mode!

So, last night I put my DS on an airplane to Disney World WITHOUT me!!

He is going with one of his buddies and I know they will be fine. Both are seasoned Disney guests and both have flown a lot.

However...this is the first time he will be traveling with an adult (yeah, yeah, his buddy is 21, but I've known the guy since he was like 10 years old so it's hard to think of him as a grown up!)!!

Okay, I know, he's 19 and has been flying with us since he was 5...and he has flown to Wash DC twice without me (but there was a HUGE contingent of boy scouts involved in those trips)...and yeah, I know, his buddy has flown all the way to Australia by himself...Heck, he even drove almost 400 miles (one way) to visit a friend in Fairbanks about this time last year...I know all this, but I can't help being a little freaked out!

Especially when less that 5 minutes after I dropped them at the airport last night and headed home, he called me from his friend's phone...
DS: "Mom, you need to come back."
ME: "Why?"
DS: "I left my phone in the car."


I know they will be fine. DME is picking them up at the airport and they have DME tags so they don't even have to go get their luggage. They have the dining plan so food won't be an issue. It will all be good! I know they are going to have a great time and that I shouldn't worry, but I just can't help myself!!

The only thing keeping me from COMPLETELY losing it is the fact that DH and I leave on Tues night/Wednesday morning for our own trip down there. We will get to meet up with the boys for dinner on Wednesday and hear all about their trip!
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Pixies for Mom. I'm sure they will have a great time.
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They will have a blast!!

My oldest is also 19. He and two friends went to WDW alone back in April (when he was still 18). It was what they chose to do for their "senior trip". They had a great time!!

Glad to hear they have the dining plan! My son and his friends did not have it. My son budgeted food money as did one other friend. The third friend was trying to be super thrifty and take sandwiches. I knew he would get burnt out on sandwiches, but also figured it was find. When it was send off time (they drove my van down)- I found out the boy had packed all of the sandwiches IN ADVANCE! I was worried sick they would all be nasty long before the end of the trip.... He made do- but my son said afterwards he was pretty miserable eating those sandwiches after a few days. My son and the other boy frequently shared some to help off set the sandwiches.... In retrospect- I think a meal plan would've been good for them!
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They will have a blast!!

My oldest is also 19. He and two friends went to WDW alone back in April (when he was still 18). It was what they chose to do for their "senior trip". They had a great time!!

Glad to hear they have the dining plan! My son and his friends did not have it. My son budgeted food money as did one other friend. The third friend was trying to be super thrifty and take sandwiches. I knew he would get burnt out on sandwiches, but also figured it was find. When it was send off time (they drove my van down)- I found out the boy had packed all of the sandwiches IN ADVANCE! I was worried sick they would all be nasty long before the end of the trip.... He made do- but my son said afterwards he was pretty miserable eating those sandwiches after a few days. My son and the other boy frequently shared some to help off set the sandwiches.... In retrospect- I think a meal plan would've been good for them!
As that kiddo's mom, I would have been really concerned about him eating basically only sandwiches for that long! However, when they are that age...you have to start letting them make their own mistakes (and yes, I keep telling myself this about my DS's traveling...I just really don't want him to get on the wrong plane or miss a connection, hence freak out mode - but trying not to let DS realize how bad I'm freaking out!).

We also have the added issue that my DS is Type 1 diabetic (this is also part of my freak out issues). He HAS to eat and eat good food regularly. Luckily his buddy's parents are DVC members so they are at Saratoga Springs and have a minimal kitchen. We sent them some basic snacks/breakfast stuff and they are going to get milk at the resort. What we sent and the QSDP should feed them pretty good for the time they are there. I am so glad that Disney has yummy food at the QS restaurants and not just hamburgers and fries!!! And luckily, my DS likes good food, so he will search out the good for him stuff instead of settling for junk!
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We also have the added issue that my DS is Type 1 diabetic (this is also part of my freak out issues).
That's probably a big part of your freaking out. The rest is being a mom. Whether they are 9, 19 or 90, you're still going to worry. that he calls home and gives you information that reassures you he's doing okay. It won't make the worry go away but hopefully it'll make it less for you.
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DD and her BFF did a vacation on their own to WDW senior year-flying standby as BFFs father was a pilot. They did fine although there may have been a minor issue with DD being only 17 at check in. They are both smart girls and handled it.

19 is plenty old to be traveling on his own. Many kids will be beginning a junior year abroad at 19. My DN did hers to Australia, leaving a month short of turning 20.

Adventure is important to kids and IIRC you DS is not going off to college but my kids had many friends who dealt with medical problems from across the country. Letting go is the hardest part of letting them grow up but probably the most important.
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At least you get to go meet up with them soon! I understand being nervous - I've sent my kids off on their own to different countries, states, and cities. It really doesn't make a difference where they go - it's just that they're out of our control. The Type 1 would make it even worse.
Pixies that you make it! He always sounds like a great kid and I'm sure he'll be thoughtful about his illness. No-one wants a visit to the ER on vacation!
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I know it is never easy no matter how old they are. But trust in his experience in flying and Disney.
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I will be putting my 17 year old son on a plane to Arizona/California next July for a student trip. First time he's ever been away from us. I haven't started stressing yet, but I know I'll get there.
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