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Old 09-03-2013, 02:23 PM   #16
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Motrin works best for my DD. She got her at WDW the day before her 11th birthday. The hardest thing is not being able to go swimming when AF (Aunt Flo) is visiting.
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Abby didn't get hers at the beginning of school but her first one was at Christmas time when she was 10. Once in a while she'll say she has really bad cramps and I'll give her Tylenol for it (at the moment, she still uses chewables) but other than that, with the way she acts, you would never know Abby even gets it. Of course too for Abby, I had gotten her that American Girl book (I forget the name of it) and she read it over and over and over so she knew that it wasn't something that was only happening to her. When it finally did happen, I expected an over the top unreasonable reaction to it but what I ended up getting was a "it happened, it's no big deal" reaction instead. Go figure - and she still acts that way about it for the most part. Abby started the day before we went on vacation and that created more of a reaction then when it originally started.
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My 12yo started last year. She says she hates it( who doesn't) but she hardly ever says anything about it now. Just waiting for my other daughter(11) to start all of that. Nothing like having 3 ladies PMSing in the house. LOL
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Old 09-03-2013, 07:25 PM   #19
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I come from a family of late starters and my Dd was well into high school before faced with puberty. I really feel badly when I see how much earlier girls are menstruating these days. some of them just seem too young to me.

Good luck to the OP's DD and all the other teens. If I remember, my late start of menopause was related to my overall late start, so I guess we pay at one end or the other.
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did she not know this was going to happen to her. tell her this is apart of growing up and one day she will be glad she got it when she holds her baby for the first time. tell her if she cant talk to you about it to go to the school nurse. they have several good websites about getting it for the first time they also have some stuff about it on youtub tell her to make sure she has stuff for it in her school bag or locker because it can sneak up on you and come in the middle of the school day.
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Poor thing. I was 9 when I started for the first time so I had not had any sort of conversation with my mum about it yet. I was sleeping over at my cousins and it happened in the night. Every month I think should I not try to hide it so much from my 7 year old in case she is the same and gets it early


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She was doing much better on day 2 although still wishing it away, lol. To answer all the questions: Yes, she knew what it was all about as we've had many discussions about that and everything else related to her body. I was a Health teacher before she was born so discussing these topics is not uncomfortable for me. But like another person said it doesn't matter how much we talked about it when it happened it still scared the bejesus out of her. She's been taking Tylenol for the back pain and that seems to be doing the trick . We went shopping together to pick out things she would need and got her all set up. We even picked out a wristlet she will bring to school and she's going to start walking around with it daily so when the next time comes there won't be questions from friends. Thanks for all the pixies, even though I knew it was coming it was tough to see my girl move to the next phase. I should also note that DD had multiple surgeries as a baby/toddler on her kidneys and bladder with all sorts of x-rays and nuclear tests done on that region. I always wondered if it was doing any damage to her reproductive system. I was able to breathe a little
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In addition to the wristlet, a lot of the girls here use their pencil bags in their binders for supplies. They just bring the teacher their notebook with their agendas for us to sign a pass and no one thinks anything other than they are taking the binder to the litterbox with them.
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If I remember, my late start of menopause was related to my overall late start, so I guess we pay at one end or the other.
This is true. It works the same as the heart. You will have so many monthlies, and if you started later, menopause will come later, if you start early menopause will come earlier. Of course, we are speaking of menopause in a natural way.
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We went shopping together to pick out things she would need and got her all set up. We even picked out a wristlet she will bring to school and she's going to start walking around with it daily so when the next time comes there won't be questions from friends.
This is what I plan to do kind of with my DD. Somewhere on some movie or tv show one time, I saw where a mom had "Women's Day". Which basically meant when her DD started, a day was taken from school and spent doing special "womens things"....like shopping, spa, manicures/pedicures, lunch. A special day to celebrate being a woman.
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Poor thing. I was 9 when I started for the first time so I had not had any sort of conversation with my mum about it yet. I was sleeping over at my cousins and it happened in the night. Every month I think should I not try to hide it so much from my 7 year old in case she is the same and gets it early


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Good idea, bc the age really is a hereditary type thing. More than likely your DD will be around the same age you were.

I was 10 as was my mom, and my gram. Huntersmom just said how it runs in her family to start late. It is a family thing.
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Glad she is doing better! She'll get the hang of it soon! I'm sure she'll still hate it like most ladies do, but she'll get used to it! LOL

DD is 12 and while she hasn't gotten "it" yet, I know it's coming soon. I was barely 13 when I started so, since it is mostly hereditary, we should be going through the same thing in the next 6 months or so w/ DD. DH says he is overwhelmed by the "head butting hormones" in the house sometimes and that he's thankful that we have DS on his side so he isn't outnumbered by hormonal women. To quote him "For God's sake, if you guys are like this when she's 12 and doesn't even have 'THAT' yet . . . what is it gonna be like when she's 16?!?!"
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DD is 12 and while she hasn't gotten "it" yet, I know it's coming soon. I was barely 13 when I started so, since it is mostly hereditary, we should be going through the same thing in the next 6 months or so w/ DD. DH says he is overwhelmed by the "head butting hormones" in the house sometimes and that he's thankful that we have DS on his side so he isn't outnumbered by hormonal women. To quote him "For God's sake, if you guys are like this when she's 12 and doesn't even have 'THAT' yet . . . what is it gonna be like when she's 16?!?!"
. Sounds like we ave the same DH! My DD is 12.5 and has been PMSing for what seems like a year, lol.
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