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Thanks everyone! I'm beyond excited, and Kelly and I have already got some plans in the works.
And this weekend I took the photos of our first floor, but then I must have gotten extremely distracted, because I totally forgot I needed to upload them to the computer. This morning I woke up and realized I never did it. I promise it will get done tonight and I will post them tomorrow. I PROMISE!
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Whew! All caught up...thank you for sharing your adventures with all of us. I really enjoyed reading! I'm sorry you had a rough end to your trip. I will be in your shoes somewhat within this next year with my parents as well. My dad retired from the police department December 2012 and my mom retires from SSA this June! My mom is my best friend and we work together. She's actually one floor below me in the same building! It will be hard when she retires because I won't have that "safe haven" to go to when I get stressed at work. Once she retires, my parents will do some updates to my childhood home and put it on the market as well. They already built their retirement home in WV, where we've vacationed with them for the past 4 years; once my childhood home sells, they will be out there permanently -- almost 2 hours away. Very different from the 30 minutes distance we have now. I guess what I'm trying to say is, while I'm not totally familiar with what you are going through, it's coming; then for sure, I will. But like your family, mine is very close...VERY close. No matter the distance between us, our relationships will stay strong because we put the effort in early to make them that way; to withstand whatever life throws at us. Sure I won't see my parents as often but I can still communicate with them every day. And when we are together; it just means that much more.
Now...on to more exciting things...CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR CRUISE! How exciting!
Can't wait to see the pictures of your home...sounds like you've put a TON of work into it!
Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I guess you know exactly how I'm feeling, which I'm so sorry for. For you though, my issue with a 30 minute difference is what you consider normal, and now they will be moving 2 hours away, which must be a total shock to the system. I hope you find the strength to get through the first few days, weeks, and months of the adjustment, which I know will take a toll on your heartstrings, and at least you know that you have someone out there who knows what you're going through, and will always lend an ear if you need one.
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Hi again! I was MIA for 2 months. Had some major remodelling at my house and actually had to move out. But I'm back now.
What a great finish to your trip! How great that Hope was able to have that special moment with Belle. Congrats on your Disney Cruise!
Hey stranger! Glad you're back. I understand about house rennovations, although we didn't need to leave our house for them.
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Hi Melissa I've read several of your previous Disney TR's that you wrote and have always enjoyed reading about your adventures together with your Mom and Hope. Sorry I didn't get to read this TR when you first started writing it but it sure sounds like you created lots of memories together. I was sad to read that your mom was selling your childhood home and moving by your brother but I do think you'll always keep that special bond that you have with your mom no matter how far she lives from you. I'm not as close with my mom as you are with yours but I do have two daughters who I have a close relationship with, and although they both lives about 40 minutes away from me, I still feel a close bond with them. It will all work out in the end I'm sure Love all the beautiful pictures that you took of Hope for your photography class! My favorite was the one of her holding the American Flag She really is so adorable. Glad you got to experience the new Fantasyland on your trip. My DD and I took a mother/daughter trip in March and we enjoyed experiencing the new rides. We also loved eating a counter service lunch in the Be Our Guest restaurant!
How wonderful that you were able to meet your Jersey PP friends in AC It must have been a blast taking a mini vacation together. Congratulations on booking your Disney Cruise. I'm sure you're going to love it. I will look forward to reading about that in the future
Hi! Thanks for joining in and for your kind words. I'm sure you're right, and the more I think about it, I know things will be okay. It's just the initial shock I'm not ready for, and the thought of not ever going back in the house where I grew up. That's the one that really makes me sad. Just the thought of it brings tears to my eyes.
But on a happier note, yes, we did get to experience some of the new FL expansion, and plan on exploring more of it when we go back in May. Hopefully it will look even better than it did this last time.
Ugh, the worst part of house renovations is the cleaning you have to do afterwards. That's when you realize how much junk you have. I thought I'd never finish cleaning. The reason we had to move out was because we re-did the whole floor. I have tiles and one day, while my husband was painting, he moved the island in the kitchen and the tiles just popped up. Since I knew we wouldn't find the same tiles and I didn't want to have different ones throughout the house, we decided to put them in all new. We moved into a small 2 bedroom apartment at my parent's house. Imagine that... And to top it all off, no internet or cable. But I'm here now so all is good.
Melissa, I finally had a chance to read your TR. At least this way I didn't have to wait long for updates! Anyway, for the situation with your family. And I'm glad that you enjoyed your girls trip. Sounds like everything went well and you accomplished a lot. I figured the dining plan wouldn't work out for you - it's so much food! But glad you had fun. And good for you, booking a cruise! And with Kelly, too! Y'all have fun together!
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Ugh, the worst part of house renovations is the cleaning you have to do afterwards. That's when you realize how much junk you have. I thought I'd never finish cleaning. The reason we had to move out was because we re-did the whole floor. I have tiles and one day, while my husband was painting, he moved the island in the kitchen and the tiles just popped up. Since I knew we wouldn't find the same tiles and I didn't want to have different ones throughout the house, we decided to put them in all new. We moved into a small 2 bedroom apartment at my parent's house. Imagine that... And to top it all off, no internet or cable. But I'm here now so all is good.
I definitely didn't have to deal with all of that. And it's sad to say, but if I was without cable while all of my shows were in the middle of their season, I'd be going crazy!
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Melissa, I finally had a chance to read your TR. At least this way I didn't have to wait long for updates! Anyway, for the situation with your family. And I'm glad that you enjoyed your girls trip. Sounds like everything went well and you accomplished a lot. I figured the dining plan wouldn't work out for you - it's so much food! But glad you had fun. And good for you, booking a cruise! And with Kelly, too! Y'all have fun together!
Sharon! There you are! I've been wondering where you flew off too. Thanks for catching up. Linny told me the dining plan probably wouldn't be for me either, but like she said, how would I know unless I gave it a shot. Live and learn right?
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Doesn't it make you feel all warm and fuzzy knowing you have a trip in the works!! Can't wait to read the PTR and TR for the cruise!!
It definitely does. Puts a little bounce in your step.
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So as promised, here are some photos of the work we've been doing to our first floor. Keep in mind it's still not completely finished, and that I was also really lazy when taking these photos. They're not the best and I didn't even edit them before I uploaded them to shutterfly, so sorry for the crappy lighting.
Living Room Before
Living Room After...we also plan on putting a fireplace in, and moving the clock to another wall
Another Before
And Another After...here you can see where we knocked out that wall
Once again, sorry for the bad lighting, but here's one of my DIY's...I handmade the moss "B" in the frame.
Before of the Living Room/Kitchen
After...just pretend Hope isn't there
Kitchen Before
Kitchen After...I still need to paint the cabinets, which will probably be a white or off white
I plan on also painting the wood surrounding the ceiling light the same color as the cabinets
Hallway Leading to Front Door Before
Hallway After
My Gallery Wall (I made the star using a cereal box, and the LOVE sign with scrapbook paper)
This is Where the Dining Room Was Before
We Made it a Study for After (will be putting a round rug in there too)
This Was the "Fancy Room" or "Serve No Purpose Room" Before
It's Now Our Dining Room After
And there you have it. Our first floor so far. I honestly have no desire to start the cabinets and banister, but it has to get done eventually before I can say it's all finished. Plus I need to update the light fixture in the foyer and spray paint the hanging lights above our breakfast bar a bronze color like I did with all of our door knobs.
I got so far behind because of tax season.
Looked like such a fun trip.
I am sorry for the feelings you are having with your parents and the move. I know it has to be hard.
I am so, so, so excited for you to be going on a Disney cruise and to be going on the same one as Kelly. You guys will have so much fun!!!!
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They already built their retirement home in WV, where we've vacationed with them for the past 4 years; once my childhood home sells, they will be out there permanently -- almost 2 hours away. Very different from the 30 minutes distance we have now. I guess what I'm trying to say is, while I'm not totally familiar with what you are going through, it's coming; then for sure, I will. But like your family, mine is very close...VERY close. No matter the distance between us, our relationships will stay strong because we put the effort in early to make them that way; to withstand whatever life throws at us. Sure I won't see my parents as often but I can still communicate with them every day. And when we are together; it just means that much more. 
Glad you're back. I understand about house rennovations, although we didn't need to leave our house for them. 
for the situation with your family. And I'm glad that you enjoyed your girls trip. Sounds like everything went well and you accomplished a lot. I figured the dining plan wouldn't work out for you - it's so much food! But glad you had fun. And good for you, booking a cruise! And with Kelly, too! Y'all have fun together!
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