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Should we buy a celebration cake for daughter’s birthday?
Hi! My daughter will be turning 10 on the second day of our Alaska cruise. We’ll be at sea the whole day. I will be bringing items to decorate the room (I have a fun centerpiece for a nightstand and I’m planning on making magnetic door decorations). This way the room will be decorated on her actual birthday. What we’re trying to figure out is if we should order a celebration cake for her. Is it worth it? The price seems high for what you get. Also, I was thinking that if we do order the cake then we would have it delivered to our room. I think that she will have so much fun picking out her dessert at dinner that night. We just don’t want to take away the fun in that for her. So do you think that it’s worth it to order the cake?
Also, is there anything else that we could do to make this a special day for her? This is our first Disney cruise and we all are very excited!
The cake is really a matter of how you want to mark your daughter's birthday. A cruise does offer the chance for special experiences that could be much more memorable than just another cake. And let's face it, there's no shortage of cake and other treats available around the clock, at no extra charge. Personally, I like the idea of singing Happy Birthday in one of the main dining rooms, as it involves more people in the celebration. An in-room cake ceremony with just the four of you generally doesn't have the same drama, as far as I'm concerned.
Rather than pay extra for the cake, why not order some regular treats from room service to go along with the decorations? The cake-of-the-day, cookies, fruit, pizza... (we keep our room stocked with cookies, fruit, and cheese throughout the cruise).
You can make your meals a bit more special by taking advantage of the full-service breakfast and lunch in Triton's - it's open seating. There will be movies in the Buena Vista Theatre throughout the day - there may be one she especially wants to share with the family. If she's wildlife/nature oriented... there will probably be presentations by a park ranger.
It'll be Formal Night and the Captain's Welcome Reception - a great opportunity to dress up and have family portraits as well as a photo op with the Captain.
In other words, there are lots of opportunities for cruise-unique experiences that can make the day special - it's all just a matter of what may float her boat.
It may also be a good time to surprise her with a special shore excursion you know she'll love.
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I think if you let it slip to your servers about your daughter's birthday, they'll help to make it a special time at dinner or breakfast if you choose to go to Triton's that morning. If that day allows, give your daughter a special treat in the salon (you have to be 18 for the spa) or if it's a port day, let her plan the day and pick the excursion you do (within reason and budget). Ask at guest services if they have the birthday buttons or something like in the parks. There are always plenty of photo ops on board so maybe make a 10th birthday sign for her to hold in some of the pics. And, of course, when you get home, go on line and make her a photo book of the cruise as a special memory. Most photo websites do them and I know that photo pass has DCL pages etc now and while the cruise pics aren't photo pass, you can upload your own to make the book. Oh, another idea; get a photo mat and write your daughter's name and 10th birthday on it for character signatures and put a cruise pic in it. You can also do one of those photo collages on line with some of your pics from the cruise and give it the title of (your daughter's name) 10th Birthday. Granted, those aren't on board activities but would add to the memories. Have fun.
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We've celebrate our daughter birthday twice at the ship. Just tell the waiter during the first night and ask them if they are able to sing happy birthday and help you celebrate he day!
They brought a special dessert - cupcake with a candle - for our DD and the waiter did a bird origami for her as a present! The sang happy birthday! She loved it!!!!
Thanks for all the great ideas!!! We now feel better on our decision to pass on the cake. I know that we’ll be celebrating all day long and any chance to have dessert will be taken. It’s also nice to know that our server may do something special for her. Thanks again!