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Old 10-01-2003, 02:55 PM   #1
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Today is not so good, you guys

First of all, it's Muffin's birthday-that is good! [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img] However, my first born child called me from college today to say "Hi" and I immediately knew that all was not well with him. [img]graemlins/pout.gif[/img] I asked how he was and he said," Mom, I am not having a good day". I asked what was up and he told me that he badly sprained his ankle, his girlfriend of three years broke up with him and that he was cold and hadn't brought a sweatshirt or any of his jackets to school. [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img] Oh, and also, his roommate, who has been friends with him all through high school is having major kidney issues and may need dialysis soon. [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img] He is supposed to go camping in two weeks and the doc at Temple U hospital didn't think that was a great idea. Oh, and he also bought his girlfriend a new tennis racket and she, of course, didn't break up with him until after she received it! [img]images/icons/mad.gif[/img] I would like to go up to Penn State right now and hit her over the head with it! ( Honestly, I love her and unfortunately, so does my son. [img]images/icons/frown.gif[/img] ) The only thing I could think to say to him was that I knew he was hurting and not to sulk. I know that was dumb, but it was all I could think of. He is coming home this weekend to get some warmer clothes and I think also for some love. [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img] Thanks for letting me ramble.

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Old 10-01-2003, 03:01 PM   #2
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Re: Today is not so good, you guys

Okay, now you've got me crying!

I'm so sorry for what your son is going through, and know how hard it is to not be able to give your child a hug (or a jacket) when he needs it.

I'm glad he is going to be able to come home over the weekend, and I'll be praying for both of you.

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P.S. I'll help you hit the girl over the head with the tennis racket! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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Old 10-01-2003, 03:02 PM   #3
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Aw Tara, I feel so badly for your son. Sending some pixie dust his way that things get better.

Happy Birthday to Muffin. (It's my DH's birthday too!!! ) [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
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Old 10-01-2003, 03:05 PM   #4
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Oh, Tara, I feel so bad for your DS. [img]images/icons/frown.gif[/img]
Breakups are hard enough without having to deal with a sprained ankle, his friend being sick and being cold! [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img]

It's good he'll be coming home for the weekend, to get the kind of TLC only a mom can give!

By the way, you don't look like you can have a son in college! You go girl!(Thought I'd cheer you up a bit since I can't help your son!) [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img]
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Old 10-01-2003, 03:07 PM   #5
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Tara, that's just too many bummer things in one day! I'm so sorry your "baby" (aren't they always going to stay our babies? [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img] ) is hurting, which in turn means you are too. Sending you lots of {{{hugs}}}

And please wish Muffin a very happy birthday for me [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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Old 10-01-2003, 03:28 PM   #6
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Aww man that stinks for your son. Maybe she just needs a break and will come to her senses at what a great MIL you'll make one day (just trying to cheer you up).

Happy Birthday to John.

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Old 10-01-2003, 04:01 PM   #7
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aww, the pain of a mother seems to only get stronger the more independent those children become dosent it. At least when they were little and their world revolved around you, you could cure any aile and a kiss made everything better. Now all you can do is hurt for your boy and love him when he comes home.

Im sure being home will put him in a better frame of mind!

Hugs to you and your sweet boy and happy birthday to your husband
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Old 10-01-2003, 04:11 PM   #8
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So sorry to hear about what your son is going through, and now you as well are going through. I think when he comes home, a big hug will do you both wonders. [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img] Good luck to him.
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Your son sounds like he's having a really rough time. As for his girlfriend - [img]images/icons/mad.gif[/img] Didn't she offer to give him the tennis racket back after she broke up with him? I hope, in amongst all that, Muffin's having a great birthday! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img] By the way, I have some very fond memories of Penn State - my friend studied there and I spent a couple of weeks staying with him in 1996, it's a great place. [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img]
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Tara, I know how you feel, my son had a pretty bad week last week and is coming home this weekend too. Its tough and I hate that I cant see him when hes feeling bad to judge just how bad it really is. Sounds like you handled it fine- heres hoping for a sulk free weekend! Sheila
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Old 10-01-2003, 08:27 PM   #11
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How wonderful a mother's love that your son called you when he was having a bad day! [img]graemlins/love.gif[/img]

They will always be our babies, won't they?

P.S. Main campus Penn State? I could be there in an hour with a tennis racket of my own! [img]images/icons/mad.gif[/img]
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Old 10-01-2003, 08:35 PM   #12
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Oh gosh, I am sooooo sorry to hear that! [img]images/icons/frown.gif[/img] I hope your son feels better soon!
What is up with that girl? Maybe we should all pay her a visit!
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Tara,

He really needs his mom right now! Smother that boy with love and TLC this weekend and he will feel much better when he gets back to Penn State! He will complain all week about his mom doting on him, but he will be happier! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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Re: Today is not so good, you guys

Aw, that is so heartbreaking for your son Tara! Your heart breaks right along with your child's. I know he doesn't want to hear it right now, but he'll meet lots of girls at school and maybe even someone special. To top off his heartache, he is physically in pain from his ankle. Lucky him! His mom is nurse Tara (the cuter one). [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img] Make him his favorite treats this weekend and watch his favorite movies with him. Send him back to school with a bunch of warm sweaters and lots of TLC and maybe he'll start to feel like his old self again.

P.S. Birthday greetings to Muffin. Hope he had a wonderful day.
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I hope he feels better after his weekend home- I know you will shower him with plenty of TLC!
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