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Old 07-07-2005, 08:41 AM   #1
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Should I be upset?

Let me give you a little back ground. We are going to Disney 2 weeks before my in-laws and DH's aunt & DH's Cousin. His cousin will turn 11, while at Disney. (His party is 4 days before they leave and he will not know anything about the trip until that day. They are going to tell him before everyone gets there) For his birthday I was going to buy him an autograph book, penny press book and pen, etc. When I told his mom, she said "No, I want EVERYONE to give him MONEY. $10 each." That is not the big deal, as the autograph book and other stuff would run more than that. I wanted to share some of Disney's magic with him before he left. I also did not like the fact that she told me to give him money and exactly how much. (I like giving gifts and seldom give money unless I have exhausted all of my ideas.)
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Old 07-07-2005, 08:57 AM   #2
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How RUDE! Give him what you want and ignore the mother. I wont say here what I think of her thoughts but its not nice)

He will enjoy your gifts much more than money he will blow and not recall that what he got for the money was from you.

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Old 07-07-2005, 08:58 AM   #3
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How RUDE! Give him what you want and ignore the mother. I wont say here what I think of her thoughts but its not nice)

He will enjoy your gifts much more than money he will blow and not recall that what he got for the money was from you.

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I think he would enjoy your ideas SO much better.
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Old 07-07-2005, 12:26 PM   #4
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How RUDE! Give him what you want and ignore the mother. I wont say here what I think of her thoughts but its not nice)

He will enjoy your gifts much more than money he will blow and not recall that what he got for the money was from you.

Hugs and good luck with this

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Another vote for doing it your way!!!
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Old 07-07-2005, 09:01 AM   #5
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No one should ever TELL someone what to give as a GIFT. You go ahead and do what you want. She was out of line. She can make a SUGGESTION, but that is it. You are right to feel mad.

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Sounds like a control freak to me!!! I'd give him whatever you want without regard to her commands. And maybe you could buy her a book on manners while your at it!
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Old 07-07-2005, 09:15 AM   #7
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I can't believe how rude people can be - it is just out of line to tell you what to give. Here is a thought, why not give $10 in Disney Dollars? That will fix her That is what I would do...LOL
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Give him what you want not what she wants! Have fun in WDW
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I'd do the Disney Dollars. Keep in mind...the trip might be his last gift he opens...

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OK...just re read the post and saw he will know about the trip before everyone arrives.

I would totally do an autograph book and a chubby pen, along with $10.00 in Disney Dollars.

Hey...let us all know what she thinks of the gifts!
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I can't believe how rude people can be - it is just out of line to tell you what to give. Here is a thought, why not give $10 in Disney Dollars? That will fix her That is what I would do...LOL

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I was thinking the same thing.....
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I can't believe how rude people can be - it is just out of line to tell you what to give. Here is a thought, why not give $10 in Disney Dollars? That will fix her That is what I would do...LOL

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I second this idea!
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No one should ever TELL someone what to give as a GIFT. You go ahead and do what you want. She was out of line. She can make a SUGGESTION, but that is it. You are right to feel mad.

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I totally agree!
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And maybe you could buy her a book on manners while your at it!

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I love that idea!

I would give her what you wanted...I think it sounds like a great gift. That was unbelievably rude!
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Wow, that was rude I hope you get what you want
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That is really rude. I would give him what you wanted, he'll probably like it better anyways!!
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