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Old 02-26-2005, 04:40 AM   #1
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Can I have some marriage pixie dust? My Dad has to have surgery April 8 and I have to go home to help out as my mom is not in very good health and being an only child I need to be there to help her out. I thought my DH was listening only to find out today I guess he wasn't. He was invited to speak at a conference and was so excited he said yes without thinking or talking to me. Well it is of course the same time as my Dad's surgery. When I told him he didn't even bat an eyelash before discussing the importance of this talk. It was all about him. Then at the very end he was like well my parents can watch the girls. Wrong! I told him his mom was going to be gone for the first few days which are the same days he would be gone! He still didn't do anything and was like well we can hire someone or maybe your dad can change the date! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No my dad can't change the date and you can't just hire someone! Like I would feel good about leaving a total stranger with my DD's for 2 or 3 days alone?

I DON'T THINK SO!!!!

He still doesn't get it so basically I am screwed and I am so upset! I have to see if I can find someone in the family in Missouri to watch the girls during the day while I am there so I can take care of my dad. I know my parents are going to be livid as my dad has a hard time with surgeries and needs peace and quiet and this won't be it! Plus I have to now figure out how to pay for three tickets (i was using my free one) and rent a car.

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Sending you lots of to find a solution!!
Extra to help with DH's listening skills.
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Oh I'm sorry to hear this, sending you lots of .

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Men just don't listen do they!!!!! Aaaaahhhh.

Sending you lots of pixie dust that you are able to find a solution that works out for you and lots of pixie dust for your dad's surgery.

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Sending you lots of pixie dust that you are able to find a solution that works out for you and lots of pixie dust for your dad's surgery.



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Sorry to hear about the health problems in your family. Husbands only hear what is important to them. I'm sure something will work out. It always seems like a power struggle with them and hopefully he can adjust his schedule once he realized what this mean for you to do.

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I'm sorry things are screwed up right now. Hopefully your DH has had some time to think about it and can bend some.
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Old 02-27-2005, 04:58 PM   #8
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Thanks everyone! We still haven't really discussed it further but I wrote him a long letter explaining my side and how it felt.

Basically to answer some of the questions brought up. His speech is in Southern Oregon and he doesn't know what time of day yet he will be speaking so we don't know if will require more than one day. Unfotunately, since I have to fly down to Missouri for Dad's surgery which happens to be the same day we can't change anything there. I will be gone for a week supposedly.

DH feels that I should just go and that he will be fine and will just take care of getting the time covered. The only problem (and I don't know if others feel this way) is that I want to know who is taking care of my children and if it is an overnight thing then we only have one person I trust other than his parents to do that. I don't know yet if she is available. The problem with that is we can't afford her and since DH isn't getting paid to speak we have no extra money. DH doesn't understand why I just can't go and I have tried to explain that I have to know and be comfortable that my children are taken care of or else I am no good to anyone while I am gone!

Thanks for the pixie dust. We just need some more to help get this figured out.
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So sorry, Dianna... I hope things work out for you and your family.





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