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Old 11-18-2003, 05:17 PM   #1
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Birthday Gifts for Friends Question

Hi, I don't know about you guys but I'm not big on buying gifts for every occasion. Big occasions yes, Baby and Bridal Showers, Weddings, New Home, A Big Birtday (22, 30, 40,50, etc...) and of course Christmas.

None of my friends and I exchange Birthday gifts except for occasionally. We do cards - and call each other. Well I have these friends and they are not even that close of friends and they buy gifts for us for everything! They bought us Christmas gifts (which of course we bought them one as well) and then they bought us a house warming present which was also nice. Well here is the thing - every time they go on vacation they bring us back a gift. Sure it isn't much but they still bring it back every time. My birthday was a few months ago and I casually mentioned it after it had already passed something like, "Oh yea DH and I went there for my birthday." Well the next time I saw them they gave me a birthday gift!

Tonight is one of their birthdays. Their partner is out of town at the moment so we are all getting together for dinner so that he isn't home alone on his Bday. No biggie. But now I don't know if I am suppose to bring a gift. I really don't want to, I don't have the money and have no idea what to purchase. Plus I don't want to get into the habit of having to buy them gifts every single year. I figure the fact that we are going out to dinner and will spend $35 tonight would be enough.

What would you do? What do you do when it comes to Friends and birthday gifts? Am I just insensitive?

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Old 11-18-2003, 05:43 PM   #2
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Re: Birthday Gifts for Friends Question

One of my best friends and I exchange Christmas gifts
alternately. She gave me this silver Christmas ball
one year and a gift so the next year I had the ball
& gave her a gift. We do not exchange B-day presents.
You may just have to not give a gift to get
the idea across that you don't feel comfortable
exchanging B-day gifts with them. It really gets
expensive if you exchange gifts especially if you
have kids. It seems like we're constantly getting
b-day party invit's from school. I quit doing them
except for their close friends. Good Luck!
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Old 11-19-2003, 10:24 AM   #3
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Re: Birthday Gifts for Friends Question

Buy a nice card. If they are offended or suprised that you didnt give a gift, then they are probably over materilistic and I would just not worry about it.

as far as my practice, I dont usually exchange gifts w/my closest friends, we just occassionally throughout the year give each other gifts if we come accross something that seems perfect for the person.

I do bring back small gifts for good friends if I go someplace they have never been like Disneyland, the Grand Canyon, etc. Otherwise I usually buy a card for casual friends who have a birthday, etc.

You could always bake something if yOu want to bring a gift.
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<font color="blue">I tend to just give cards or if I see some thing that is like a dollar I think my friends would like I would get that. But I don't go over board. </font>
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