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Old 07-19-2013, 10:30 AM   #1
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Would Allow Teens to Dine Alone?

DH and I are thinking that it's high time we got to try Palo or Remy on our next cruise in March. Do you think folks would frown on our 2 teenage DDs going to dinner by themselves? We'd of course let the servers know ahead of time. They'll be 15 and 17 at the time.
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Old 07-19-2013, 11:10 AM   #2
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I think it's totally fine. And if I was also on your cruise, DH and I wouldn't have a problem with it..

I'm curious to see what others will say...
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If you're okay with it and the servers have no problem, who cares what others think? I personally see nothing wrong with 2 older teens eating without mom and dad.
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I've read of younger children eating in the MDR alone without issues. I think you are fine. It wouldn't be an issue for me unless they weren't behaving appropriately.
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My kids are the same age as yours and I would trust them! Go for it, have a nice dinner with your husband!
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As long as it's not the first night, so you can mention your plans to your servers (and tablemates, if you have any) the previous night, having teens dine alone would be fine. We let our kids dine alone while we were at Palo when they were 13 and 9, and again at 14 and 10, with no problems. My son even walked my daughter to the Oceaneer's Lab after dinner -- normally, he tries to avoid her as much as possible, but he felt responsible.

Your kids are even older, so they should certainly know how to order and take care of themselves. If you're at all concerned, just telling them you intend to get a report from the servers the next day should remind them to behave appropriately, but they will probably be thrilled to be treated as "grown ups" and do fine.

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Absolutely! You know your kids best, and it's not at all unusual. If you're confident about their (good) behavior, and lay the groundwork with kids, servers and table mates, nobody else will have an issue with it.

When they're old enough, I generally advocate a "kids night out" on the nights the adults do Palo and/or Remy. It may or may not be practical back home, but the ship is a great place for it. Regular dining room, quick service, room service… As long as you know their plans (they know where you're going, right?).
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Absolutely! We did this on our last cruise with kids 11, 15, 15, and 19 (I still think of him as a kid, even though technically he could have gone to Palo with us!). We let the servers know the night before and they assured us it would be no problem. I probably would have done this on previous cruises, except we always had other adults who weren't eating at Palo to go to dinner with them. But I wouldn't do it unless there were teens in the group. If all the kids were under 12, I think it would be too much to ask, although I am sure the servers would still say no problem. My teens have gone out to eat without us before, so I didn't see anything different about them doing that on the ship. In addition, it was formal night, so they are probably on their best behavior when they are all dressed up!
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I agree, I've seen very young children dining "alone" (without parents) and it's pretty common actually. Your serving team will most likely mention it to you as well if they know you are going to Palo or Remy. They enjoy spoiling the kids when you're not around I would mention it as a courtesy to your table mates (if you have any) but given their ages and i'm sure their behavior you won't have any problems. There are phones onboard and the wave phones so they can contact you if they need you. They can also go the reception desk at the restaurant if they need something and the maitre'd will come get you. It really is the safest place for them to be "independent".
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We let our 14 and 15 year olds do that and they opted to order room service and eat on the verandah.
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At their ages it is fine. They would probably love it and it gives them a good lesson in independence.
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On our cruise on the Magic, our sons (ages 12 & 20) decided they wanted to go to dinner by themselves. They had dinner at Topsiders. They were able to sit by themselves and go on their own timetable. We later found out that they had the same menu as we had in the MDR, and DS12 ordered Duck Confit and loved it. They'll have great memories of their dinner out together
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Thanks for the feedback. Now to decide Palo or Remy.
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I think it would be completely fine. The ship is such a safe environment- as long as you let the servers know ahead of time, I would be totally comfortable with it.
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