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We go on to the joy and through the tears
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Moving on with the current of the years.
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To a new day, we go on.

It's time to move on and move forward.

PassPorter is a small business, and for many years it supported our family. But the world changed, print books took a backseat to the Internet, and for a long time now it has been unable to make ends meet. We've had to find new ways to support our family, which means new careers and less and less time available to devote to our first baby, PassPorter.

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Old 01-14-2013, 05:58 PM   #1
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I Finally Said "No"!

I love my job. I love the people I care for, most of my co-workers, and the difference I hope I am actually making in someone's life.
I only work 3 days a week, but they are 12 hour night shifts (I'm an RN on a Medical-Surgical Ward). Our floor has been swamped lately, with the flu, pneumonia, and other things. They called and asked me to work last Thursday (my regular schedule that week was Monday, Friday, Saturday - every other week). I said yes. Then, they e-mailed me. Could I also work Sunday and Monday of this week (my regular days this week are Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday - every other week). I said "Sure, I want a new car, the money would be good".
If you're counting - that's 7 days of working every night - for 12 hours, 12.5 with "lunch" (midnight), plus the 45 minute commute each way. Not much time left for sleep or family. Well, they called me today. Could I work this Thursday and Saturday??

I finally said "no". NO way in heck am I working 10 days straight!! I'd be unsafe at that point. I'm actually pretty excited that I said "no" as I don't often. Oh well - the overtime would have been wonderful, but I just can't do it. And now, I'm off to work!!
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Old 01-14-2013, 06:05 PM   #2
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Good for you. Everyone has a physical limit and you're up against yours now
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Old 01-14-2013, 06:07 PM   #3
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Old 01-14-2013, 06:19 PM   #4
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Congratulations! Saying "no" when we need to is a powerful tool and a great thing to learn.
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good for you.....with all the "flu, pneumonia and others things" on your floor, you don't need your resistance weakening. Take care of yourself.
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Good for you, but sad they didn't realize it wasn't safe to push you that much!
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I work 12 hr shifts in law enforcement and we can only do four in a row. Good for you for saying no. A body can only take so much!!! I hope this flu epidemic is over soon!!! Seems to be bad everywhere!!!!
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Good for you. By now, you need the rest.
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Good for you. I've been there in the past when I was a lot younger - I worked every day in a month, with just one day off and I realised my limits that way as well.
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Saying no can be a good thing--get some rest!
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