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Old 10-15-2011, 11:56 PM   #1
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My dad died today, we think

My step-mother called me from a family reunion in Cartersville, Georgia. From what we can tell, Dad fell into a lake in his wheelchair and the dive team searched for him until dusk. They found his wheelchair, but no Dad yet. Since he's got a trach and is disabled, plus has so many other problems, we're assuming they're going to find his body tomorrow (they're going to bring in some sonar equipment) and not find him alive.
My DSis and I are flying down tomorrow to be with The Mama (what we called step-mom, our mom is mom, step-mom is Mama). We're going to try to stay until they find Dad's body, and then we'll drive Mama's van back while she and her sister fly home.
I'm sad for me and my family, but at the same time, happy that Dad didn't die in a situation he didn't want. His biggest fear was that he'd die in a hospital, on a vent and not aware of what was going - so he didn't do that, I should be happy. I am, but I'm also so sad it's crushing me.


Also - if anyone happens to live in the area, and there is any news coverage, can you forward a link or post it for me? I've been trying to find something about it, just hoping it might give me a better understanding, but I haven't found anything yet.
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I'm so sorry!!! Pixies for all of you during this hard time!
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So sorry for your loss, but it sounds as though there are some blessings to hold on to. That still doesn't change the shock & sadness you must be feeling. Be good to yourself.
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I do live relatively close to Cartersville and have friends that live in Cartersville...... I have not seen or heard of this as of yet; but will let you know if I come across anything about it.....
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