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Old 09-29-2010, 01:29 PM   #1
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perimenopause...anyone going through this?

Just wondering if I am alone going through this right now???? Yesterday, I got a period on day #18 for one day (more than just spotting). I just had my internal about 23 days ago and waiting on the pap results. But dr didn't feel anything. Anyways, so I am cranky, got the munchies, and my period is changing. I am only 45 yrs old-geeze. I was thinking age 50 before perimenopause hit, so I am thrown for a loop.

Am I the only one???? I hate these feelings. I feel as though my body has a different agenda than I do. Blah!
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Old 09-29-2010, 01:58 PM   #2
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Perimenopause can start as early as 35. I think 50 is close to the average for menopause.

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i think they told me that peri could start as early as 35. they can tell by blood tests.
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It's hard for me to say for sure because i've had a hysterectomy, but i'm 41 and going through hot flashes, mood changes, weight changes and heart palpitations. My doctor recently started me on a low dose estrogen patch to treat my symptoms...peri-menopause can start at 35 and last for 10 years or more, sometimes it sucks being a woman! I hope you feel better soon
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I've been experiencing it for the past 3 years. Went 2 years without a period and had one in Jan and one in Apr. and none since. Had some tests done, and yeah, it's just my weird body. And my metabolism has slowed to a crawl, I get hot flashes only at night, and I can't sleep. And I'm only 47. So I know where you're coming from
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I had tubes tied at 34 with 3rd child. MISTAKE!! It triggered perimenopause for me! My Dr put me on birth control pills, which gave me a bit of sanity. She said I can stay on the until early 50's (barring no other complications) and then would discuss how to transition back...good luck to you...
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Been there for a few years.....I'm 48. I feel like I'm always having a hot flash. I think my last period was 2 months ago. Yeah that sounds right. And my face is breaking out a lot lately. What's that about!!! So I am comiserrating right there with you.
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I'm almost 44, but perimenopause started for me a few years ago, and gets more and more pronounced with each year.
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THankyou for being soo honest!!!!! This is a pain. I just had my dd just 1 1/2 mths after I turned 41 (been trying for a looong time and I lost a baby at 18 1/2 wks so that is why she was soo late..Oh, and she was natural no IVF), so it has only been about 3 yrs since I stopped bfing etc. I was hoping that alone would put off my perimenopause stuff but I guess it didn't
I bled yesterday, after doing a 15 km intense bike ride the day before. Now, I have no bleeding, so I have no clue what that is all about. I get hot flashes before my "normal" period. And grumpy...wow.....yeah, I am very very moody lately but then it could be the 4 yr old pushing some of the buttons too.
I am a strange one. I do like having a "normal" period. I like the predictability of it. Now, I feel old I don't want to feel old or look old. I just feel that this is toooo early. I am sooo that it is happening, if that makes any sense.

Oh, my sister is 51 and is on the pill because it was either that or a hysterectomy due to alot of bleeding. If the pill will stop the mood swings, maybe I should go on it.
How do you go to Florida with hotfashes???? When do the hotflashes stop???

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I had mood swings plus many other perimenopause symptoms. The pill DEFINITELY helped the mood swings. I never felt quite the same as before, but not crazy, either.

It even helped me lose weight (I had found it increasingly difficult to make the scale budge, and I was told that is another thing that changes in menopause). Although the pill was certainly not a magic weight loss pill, a year after starting it, I had lost 20 pounds.

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Being a woman can be so difficult at times. Be sure you stay on it with your doctor and hopefully you'll have some relief!
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You aren't alone. I started perimenopause 2 years ago. Ugh to the mood swings and hot flashes.
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Hate to tell you this, but it can start much earlier than most of the studies say . . . I was experiencing odd symptoms middle of last year . . . my regular Dr., granted not my gyn, said it sounded like I was starting perimeno . . . I'm 30. Granted, I've got some other issues, but I don't know that there is a real time frame for this anymore!
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Wow! I thought my period days were tough, but this might top it
I spotted on Tues, Wed I was good so went for a bike ride, now Thurs I am spotting again I am wondering if it isn't my cervix that is bleeding. I've had issues with it in the past and I guess it can become frayed as we get "older". If this doesn't correct itself within the next few wks, I will go to the dr and get a referal to have it cleaned up.

I am kinda wondering about BCP. I have mixed feelings. I haven't been on them in over 20 yrs. But I don't want to blow my trip in April either with these mood swings etc.

I almost bought a book on perimenopause, but then didn't because I didn't think I needed it and then this happened.

I have such mixed feelings. Feeling hormonal. Atleast you don't have to be over 45 to get this, so I can't think that I am "old" and going through it, thankgoodness.
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Wow! I thought my period days were tough, but this might top it
I spotted on Tues, Wed I was good so went for a bike ride, now Thurs I am spotting again I am wondering if it isn't my cervix that is bleeding. I've had issues with it in the past and I guess it can become frayed as we get "older". If this doesn't correct itself within the next few wks, I will go to the dr and get a referal to have it cleaned up.

I am kinda wondering about BCP. I have mixed feelings. I haven't been on them in over 20 yrs. But I don't want to blow my trip in April either with these mood swings etc.

I almost bought a book on perimenopause, but then didn't because I didn't think I needed it and then this happened.

I have such mixed feelings. Feeling hormonal. Atleast you don't have to be over 45 to get this, so I can't think that I am "old" and going through it, thankgoodness.
My OB said that she LOVES giving BCPs to women in late 30's-40's...it is amazing how much better they feel. She shared that she knows personally how much they help! I got my tubes tied to avoid the pill, and then I needed them to feel sane. I do wonder if I would have felt "normal" longer if I had not gotten my tubes tied. I advise friends against that decision--I think it was the trigger for me.
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