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Old 06-25-2010, 07:46 AM   #1
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Pondering a good present.........

Where does time go? I mean really, where does it go?? When I joined PassPorter, he was only 8(and a half).

Now he'll be 16.

He's not getting a car, he will be going to try for his permit though, but that's not a gift, that's something he has to earn himself.

I was teasing him that I'd buy him a ShamWow! that he keeps talking about.


So, what would you give a 16 year old boy??

It could be a funny, sweet or thoughtful gift. I'm sure someone else in the family will be giving him $$.
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How about a Garman navigation system? So when he DOES drive, he doesn't get lost.
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I can't help you as I wouldn't even know where to begin on what to give a 16 year old boy. Good luck and I know he will LOVE anything his mom get's him!
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The Christmas after I turned sixteen, my parents gave me my own set of keys to the house and cars on a fun key chain. Does he have a Swiss Army Knife or a multi-tool? Those are always great gifts for boys.
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I like the Swiss Army Knife idea. I would also think of gas cards so you can insure that when he does drive the car, it comes back with a full tank! Maybe a AAA membership? You could a "Favorite Things" basket full of gift cards to his favorite restaurants, stores, etc.
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My boys (and girl) always treasured their swiss army knives, but actually were much younger than 16 when they got them.

Building upon the idea of gas card and keys, why not do a "basket" of driving things. Besides a AAA membership or the like, gas cards, a breakdown kit, car wash stuff, emergency beacons, etc.

Other ideas would be tickets to a sporting event for him and a couple of friends. One of my boys enjoyed golf, but it was expensive for a teen so he would ahve enjoyed that as an outing. My other one always wanted us to give him tickets to his favorite pelagic bird watch, which was a few months after his birthday. I wold try to do something consistent with his interests and if possible let him bring a few friends along.

When my DD was 14 she wanted a trip to 6 Flags with a couple of friends.
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I have no clue. I can't remember what we gave any of our kids for their 16th!
I do know that I didn't give them their own keys to the car. NEVER. The reasoning being that if they have their own keys, you can't take them away. I like the control of being able to say "Give me MY keys to the car, you've lost your driving privilege."
I've never had to do that, but I like the idea.

Since he won't be able to drive on his own for at least another 6 months, I guess I'd focus more on his likes right now. How about tickets for a sporting event? Going to the movies with a group of friends and then out to dinner? Tickets to a concert?
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Since he won't be able to drive on his own for at least another 6 months, I guess I'd focus more on his likes right now.
Best news for me Teresa-- starting in July in Indiana you have to hold your permit for 270 days(9 months) if you don't take drivers Ed. Works for me!!!



I'm like you Amy, no one ever bought me a car either. I had to buy my own, if I wasn't working, I sure wasn't driving either because that meant I couldn't put gas in it.
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When my daughter turned 16, my wife took her and a couple friends to chicago for the weekend. Maybe he would enjoy a weekend trip with his friends?
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I didn't get my own car at 16 ...I didn't get it until I went out and bought it myself at age 21. Before that I just drove whatever was available to me at the time. I appreciated the car a lot more when I did buy it because I worked hard to get it, and it was mine.

As Far as a gift, what about his own Itouch? so yours doesn't get messed with Are there any Wii Games he has seen and wanted?

You could go totally Humorous and buy all over the hill items and tell him its all down hill from 16 LOL... beat the 40th and 50th birthday party for that! LOL.
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Thank god we don't have the 9 month rule here in Pa, although it wouldn't matter since Kelsey is taking Drivers Ed next year at school. I can't wait until she can drive and I won't need to take her to any more practices.
I like the idea of tickets to an event for him and his friends.
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What about having him make up his "dream list"? Like top 10 things he'd want, but then scale them to budget. Or...and how fun would this be? Take him to Target, and have him do the registry!!! Walking around the store with the scan gun, then print out his "wish list"!
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I wouldn't know where to start with that one - you've had lots of good ideas so far though.
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