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Old 09-14-2009, 07:44 AM   #1
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Why do some people...

...think it's ok to put their hands ALL OVER your fat, or poke it when you're bending over to grab your stuff to finally get the heck out of Family Hell 2009.

AAARRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!

There was a family get together yesterday to meet with my out-of-town aunt and her new husband. I'm always the heaviest one in my family, which has been great for my entire life , but my aunt really went overboard grabbing me and feeling around my midsection as she was standing next to me, it made me outrageously uncomfortable, I pulled away, put my hands on my hips, but she'd just keep coming back. It was like I was her brand-new luvr, it was really driving me crazy.

She had her camera all over the place, I'm not photogenic and I'm bigger than everyone so I'm just not into all these photos. I was self-conscious about my top, I was psyched when Jimmy started screaming, *ding-ding-ding* alarm was ringing, our time was up for the family get together. Then my father POKES my fat as I'm bending over and seriously...I just want to cry. Why do people think this is ok? How on earth are people so insensitive? I feel so violated. And angry!

Sorry, just venting.
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Vent away, my dear! I know what you are talking about...and them...they "don't understand why you are upset, they are only 'playing'"
UGH! Been there done that!
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I think sometimes pple feel that because they are familiar with you the humiliation doesn't or shouldn't mean anything or hurt your feelings. Igorant for sure!
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I'm getting angry just reading it never mind being there! I'm sorry you had to go through that!!!
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That's unbelievable!! I'd be inclined to not go to the next family get-together and I'd make sure they knew why.

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That's terrible! No one in my family pokes/squeezes my chubby areas, but I will never forget being about 13 and I was eating a toasted cheese sandwich. My grandma told my oldest sister (who was about 31 at the time and someone who I thought was just gorgeous) that I ate one almost every day after school. My sister said, "You're growing huh?" and I grinned a big grin and stood on my tippy toes. She said, "I didn't mean up, I meant out!" OUCH.

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That's terrible! No one in my family pokes/squeezes my chubby areas, but I will never forget being about 13 and I was eating a toasted cheese sandwich. My grandma told my oldest sister (who was about 31 at the time and someone who I thought was just gorgeous) that I ate one almost every day after school. My sister said, "You're growing huh?" and I grinned a big grin and stood on my tippy toes. She said, "I didn't mean up, I meant out!" OUCH.

You're gorgeous and people shouldn't invade your space like that. :
Ugh! Ouch indeed. Thanks Scarlett. Another aunt (Dad and yesterday's aunt's sister) once grabbed my behind, I was about 11 and growing out of a pair of pants, and shouted "So round, so firm, so fully packed!"
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Thanks, friends.

Honestly, I'd rather be poked and "caressed" :shudder: by complete strangers...or just regular strangers, than family. My family consistently makes me feel like meat, you can see them size me up with their eyes, I could spit I hate it so much. They love me, but the treatment makes me absolutely bonkers and I love them, but I need a week's recovery to get over each time I see them.

My aunt---she used to take me out shopping when I was in college. I hated it!!! If she wasn't obsessively peeking into my changing room, she'd be forcing me to come out and show her each outfit. One time I told her that I wasn't coming out, that I didn't like the skirt, that it didn't look good. She told me that she was buying and that she'd be the judge. After I walked out of the dressingroom I heard this:

"Oh. Oh no....no. That's not flattering at all. No, that doesn't look good. Turn around. OH no. No, not flattering. No, we're not getting this one."

That one took well over a week to get over.
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