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Old 07-22-2009, 03:38 PM   #1
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Just need to vent

I love my job....I really do. I don't love the fact I am doing my work, plus the other girls work because she isn't capable of doing anything our boss asks of her. I don't want to complain because I don't want to be seen as a whiner, but for every 5 things she does, I do 10 and she has the audacity to have our file clerk basically be her own personal assistant. I am not the only in the office that sees this and the other girls that aren't in our department sympathize with me.
I would never, ever, ever want to see someone lose their job, especially in this economy, but the way things are going now, I'd rather get more money and work alone.
I know I must sound like the Wicked Witch of the West and I should be grateful that I have a job. Believe me, I am. I am the only one of my friends still working, so I am uber grateful. I am also majorly annoyed about this.
I really just needed to vent about this to someone other than the other people here. Sorry for sounding spoiled and ungrateful, but thanks for taking the time to read this.
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Old 07-22-2009, 03:51 PM   #2
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I don't think you sound spoiled and ungrateful. I think you sound like someone who is frustrated with being taken advantage of. Is there a way to track/document what you do as opposed to what she does so it becomes glaringly obvious to those in charge? It is also wrong for her to the other employee act as her personal assistant. She needs to assert herself and make sure she outlines what her responsibilities are and how she can not go beyond those without a supervisor's permission.

I am sorry this is happening to you and I hope there is a way you can find to resolve it that will create a positive outcome for everyone.
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I don't think you sound spoiled and ungrateful. I think you sound like someone who is frustrated with being taken advantage of. Is there a way to track/document what you do as opposed to what she does so it becomes glaringly obvious to those in charge? It is also wrong for her to the other employee act as her personal assistant. She needs to assert herself and make sure she outlines what her responsibilities are and how she can not go beyond those without a supervisor's permission.

I am sorry this is happening to you and I hope there is a way you can find to resolve it that will create a positive outcome for everyone.

I think Danielle has said it best. I hope that things work out for you.

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Hang in there! Hopefully it'll get better. I know how you feel, as with everyjob theres always someone who doesn't pull their weight. Hopefully, someone with some authority will recognize the problem and address it!
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I think you sound like someone who is very frustrated and fed up. I don't know - I might talk to her, and let her know she's not pulling her weight. Then, offer to act as an ADVISOR ONLY! "I'll explain things to you, but you'll need to take notes and then do it yourself, I don't have time to do all of my work and then yours too."
If she's not going to play along, I'd start tracking it, and be able to prove she isn't pulling her weight.
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This is just what I have been going thro! Except I work with another guy, and we split the hours. I was getting 22.5 hours a week & doing everything!! He's been doing nothing, and worked those same amount of hours. He's stopped showing up to work. So I have been getting 45 hours a week! Which is definitely pulling me out of a major hole of credit card debt I put myself into! You are definitely not whining or selfish! I know how it is.
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