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Old 06-30-2009, 04:26 PM   #1
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my heart is heavy

My "baby" left home on Sunday....he joined the Navy...I'm very proud of him and his choice and I do think that it is the right decision for him.....but as his "mom"...it hurts so bad to say "goodbye"......he's only 19 and college wasn't what he wanted.......he would like to become a firefighter........and was told that returning military are given top priority for positions......he will be trained ( he qualified) for "rescue".........in today's world this really scares me but.....he has to live his life and make his own way........please keep Mike in your thoughts ............me too, please....this is really tough ( I didn't think it would hurt so much)..........enjoy your "babies"..they grow up and move on so fast..........rella
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I am with you on this one. My 28 year old son heads to Navy boot camp 2 weeks from today. He has tried college, but has not grown up at all until this last year. He enlisted last October and has really been focused and preparing for this since then. I will miss him, but I don't think it will be as hard for me to let him go. He is going to train as an electrician's mate. Keep the faith and stand tall and proud.
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Rella I know the feeling....about two years ago now my brother left to join the marines. It was a very hard time for our whole family. However he like your son did not think college was for him and he wants to become a state cop. Many and for you!!
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Me going into the army was a really good thing. I got a lot of training and got to see a lot of Europe. Good luck to your son. The military can be very bad, but also very good. Do tell him to get any thing important in writing.
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Thank you all for pixies and support....I know that this is good for Mike....he has never had a strong male influence in his life....my DH is almost totally disabled now with MS.....DH has never been to a little league baseball game or watch Mike play high school football.......I've been both dad and mom in certain areas (mouth guards and jock straps....embarrassing for both of us....I can laugh about it now) learning to shave etc....but as strong as I can be ....I'm not "a man" and I do believe that every boy does need some sort of male influence in his life......Mike does have an "attitude" now and I believe he does need this "kick butt" time in his life......basically, he's a wonderful kid but makes foolish and pardon the word ,but STUPID decisions.......you know, a teenager logic.......it's hard for me too, since I don't have the support in a strong male influence in my life, either....I usually have to go it alone.......I keep on remembering the words of a song for "my teenage" years (really long ago) ......blue, navy blue...I'm as blue as I can be 'cause my steady boy said ship ahoy and joined the Navy....pretty silly but I keep humming the tune and making myself cry.......I know that we'll all be fine and get use to our new (quieter) life......I thought I would like it but it really is so lonely right now. rella
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Its so hard when they leave home but it does get better. I hope your son really benefits from his service, its an honourable choice to make.
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My best friend (Mike) is in the Navy. He just became an SK2 a month or so ago and has been in for about three and a half years now. He did college for a bit, bummed around, worked here and there - I've known him since he was 21 (he's 28 now) and the difference in the last three years is absolutely astounding. He's coming home soon from his second deployment and I'm lucky enough to be waiting for him on the pier with his folks.

My best wishes and thank yous go with your Mike and it will be hard, but worth it.
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Rella and Pris,
You aren't alone. As a Mom of an active duty Sailor and the wife of a retired one, I know the feeling. If I can suggest, there is a website that is just for us...Navyformoms.com. I think you might find support and answers to any questions you might have there!
I know it's scary, but you will be shocked and amazed at the change in your child.
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The good thing is in this day of electronic communication, distance isn't quite as far. As mom of three mostly grown children, one 1800 miles away, I can tell you I feel as close to my son as I ever have.

Between email and cell phones, I know as much about how he is doing as I do my DD who is home for the summer.

It does get easier.

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