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Old 03-29-2009, 09:57 PM   #1
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A Night Alone as a couple

Every so often, the girls will have some place to go and DH and I will have nothing to do - since we both often work on the weekend (I always work Fridays, and he often works Friday, Saturday nights and Sunday afternoon).
Well, this weekend, the kids were out both nights, and DH and I had Saturday off.
We went out to dinner, and then were stuck! No movies we thought we wanted to go see badly enough to pay $10 each - no other activity that we thought we'd like to do.

Have you ever run into this problem? What do you do? We rented a movie - took us an hour at the video store to find one we both thought sounded good, and that we hadn't seen - and then went to bed.
We're getting OLD!
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Old 03-29-2009, 10:08 PM   #2
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It happens to us a lot now that our kids are adults. They both work or have social plans and leave us old folks at home. If we decide to go out, we'll head to our favourite restaurant lounge and have dinner and drinks and maybe watch some sporting event on the big screen there. Otherwise we just pretty much do our own things - often not even in the same rooms

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Well - we are empty nesters now, so this happens every night!
Actually, we have gotten better about things - I read alot and dh sleeps in his chair!! (tee hee)
That is why we love it when the weather is warmer outside. We spend alot of time outside in the summer - riding our bikes, walking, sitting at the patio table.
I am glad you had some time to yourselves!
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DH and I are empty nesters, we don`t really spend the evenings together. We just do our own thing. He `s out with his theatre group alot and I watch TV or surf the net. DD says we`ve got very boring - its suits me fine
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DH and I rarely get an evening without the kids...but that is okay with us. When we do we usually stay home, cook a nice meal together (one the kids won't eat) and then curl up in front of the fire and watch a movie...or weather permitting take a nice evening walk. Pretty boring...but neither of us has ever been up on the club scene.

Sometime soon we'll be going on an overnight to London for dinner and a show. We have a great friend that will keep the kids for us...but I can guarantee that about half-way to London or half-way through the meal one of will say "I miss the kids."
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We usually stay home (we're both home bodies) cook dinner, and then watch movies or TV together.
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We usually stay home (we're both home bodies) cook dinner, and then watch movies or TV together.
Thats what we do to. It's not often that we are home and can watch a movie from beginning to end.
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When we get an evening alone together it's usually planned. About half way through the date we start talking about the kids and thinking about what they're doing. Some things we've done on date nights:
Play cards or Yahtzee
rent a movie
go to a sporting event
go to a local bar and play pool
We usually don't spend a ton of time doing any one thing because it's nice to just relax and maybe go to bed early. We have date night this week. It's unusual for DH to have a weekday off, but he knew he would so I took the day off and Wednesday night we're going to the casino for the night. We'll have dinner then hit the hot tub and go back to the room. We may gamble for a little while but it's mostly just a night away with a nice dinner and a nice room attached. It makes us feel like we went away even though it's close and it was only for one night.
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We will play pool (billiards) or a game or two or three of backgammon. My DH always falls asleep if we watch a movie together at home.
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That has happened to Luke and me before when Stefanie had other plans. We usually end up back at home after a nice dinner and watch either something on TV or a movie we've already recorded.
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This happened to us Saturday night. DD went to a sleep over and we had big plans! Ended up watching food network (didn't want to see any of the movies out) and falling asleep on the couch - LOL
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We try to have a nice time out/in once a month when DD is over at my friends
house. We end up just watching tv or seeing a movie and having a nice diner.
Then I go and pick up DD and it's off to bed. Also since DD goes to bed by
7 p.m. we end up with the nights to ourselves.

My DM told me before DD was born that we needed to remember we were a
couple before DD and once she leaves we will still be a couple. Hopefully we
will have something to talk about besides DD.
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I have no clue what it means to have a night without kids . . . I don't think we've had one of those since DD was 3 months old . . . in June 2001.
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