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Old 08-24-2007, 03:17 PM   #1
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My baby is growing up!

Today we went for Josh's Mother's Day Out orientation. Guys...it was AWEFUL!

Josh's teachers were great...the class was great....Josh was great....I was NOT great.

The second I walked in the classroom I just burst into absolute hysterics. We aren't talking about just tears sliding down my face...we are talking LOUD, hysterical sobbing. It was aweful. I was totally prepared for Josh to do the same thing. He is a VERY timid child and I figured he wouldn't leave my side but he found a horse in a pile of toys and was perfectly happy to sit and play. He did keep coming over to me and giving me big hugs and saying "'so kay, Mommy!" I tried so hard to pull it together and put a big smile on my face for him but I just couldn't..and the harder I tried the LOUDER I sobbed. It was SO HUMILIATING! My SIL is one of Josh's teachers and she tried to calm me down but it didn't work...finally his other teacher took me off to the side and talked a little bit of sense into me. She convinced me to just try it for a month and if I was still having a hard time with it then we could just stop and try again next year.

I know I'm being ridiculous. I mean its MDO...not daycare. It's only 6 hours a day twice a week. It's just the thought of having someone else comfort my child when he is upset or having him think I would rather be somewhere else besides right next to him just absolutely breaks my heart. So many of the other parents were laughing and saying how they barely survived the summer without MDO and how glad they were to be getting a break. Maybe I will change, but I don't feel that way at all. I feel like every single minute I have with Josh is such a blessing and privelege. I mean sure it will be nice to be able to run a couple of errands while he is having fun at school, but I sure am going to miss him!

*sigh* Something is wrong with me. My best friend died laughing when I told her how all of the kids stopped playing and were just staring at me because I was sobbing so loudly...I'm sure it was a funny sight....it was just AWEFUL! I don't want my baby to grow up!
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I know exactly how you feel, Val! It will get easier. I still miss DS when he is away from me for a couple of hours and he's almost 15.

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Oh bless you Val, sorry you found it so hard. Hopefully it gets easier for you .
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Val you poor thing

to be honest I cried when I left Belle at doggy daycare for the first time. Yes...THE DOG! I could not imagine leaving my child :crying:

Just think how good this is for Josh! Being without mommy lets him spread his wings. It can only be a win/win!!
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I know Val, my DH had to walk both my DS and DD into their first day of preschool, I was sobbing so bad. My DMIL didn't make it easier either she was crying right next to me for DS.
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Awww...it'll get easier, I'm sure - you'll always want him to be with you, but I'm sure you'll also enjoy a little me-time.
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It will get easier. I cried too when I first sent my son to older toddler sessions and he was only there for 2 1/2 hours a day. The best part is the smile on their faces when you pick them up and they are happy to see you and can show you all the fun things they did that day.
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Hugs to you, Val I am right there with you....I can't imagine leaving Daniel at this point (with someone other than his Daddy or myself) but I know I will eventually have to do it! I hope it gets a little easier for you. It's nice they have a program like that available as I've never heard of such a program around here. Keep us posted on how you and Josh do!
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I too am uncomfortable with the thought of someone else comforting my li'l guy. I do work and enjoy the daily break---but I don't know how I'd handle it if he went to daycare. He stays at home with his dad, and his only babysitters have been my dad and my SIL whom I trust implicitly. In the beginning I got a little jealous that Wally was home with him all day, but it wasn't long before I realized that NOOOOOObody was comforting DS the way only IIIIIIII could.

Nevertheless, I'm sure I'll be making a similar post the first time Jimmy stays with a non-family member!
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Hang in there! Both Ryan and I were wrecks his first day of camp this summer. I did manage to hold off breaking into hysterical tears until after I left him but I was definitely destroyed. The first day was horrible for me, I was sure I had made a horrible mistake and that he was too little and I was a terrible mother, etc, etc. I was there pick him up 20 minutes early and sure enough, he had stopped crying the second I left and had a blast! By the third week of camp he was hardly waving goodbye to me he was so excited to get there. I don't know which was worse - him crying when I left him or him NOT crying when I left him! You'll be fine and it's good for both of you to have some independent time.
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