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Old 05-23-2007, 04:24 PM   #1
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For reasons which are too complicated for me to go into right now, and becaue I'm really not in the right frame of mind to go into long winded details, my son Josh is being bullied at school But you know what, and this where is get complicated he bought it all on himself. . He has to change the way he reacts to the kids in his class and learn some school etiquette real quick, otherwise he's going to have an extremely hard time for the next 8 years at school.

The school are handling it all really well and I can't fault them. Josh has the power to sort this all out and turn the situation around and only he can do it, but as a mother I can't help but feel desperately upset and sad for him and the overpowering need to hold and protect him from all this pain and hurting but I've got to stand back and let him sort it out and just be there to support him.

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I am so sorry Isabel! How old is Josh? Is he in that pre-teen or teen age time of his life? That can be a real tough time! Does he have someone he can talk to.......a counselor at school? It sounds like he needs someone to steer him in a different direction. And believe it or not - many times kids just don't want to listen to their parents! I sure hope Josh can find a way to put it all together! I sure will be thinking of you!
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Standing back & watching has got to be one of the, if not THE hardest things parents have to do! I feel your pain, my son went through something similar when he changed schools awhile ago.
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Sorry for the pain... been there, and it's so hard. Hugs and pixies. Susan
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Isabel, I know how hurtful students can be sometimes. Do you get the San Francisco Chronice in your town? There is a article on the front page today(may 23rd) about the very subject. You could try emailing Illene Lelchuk at
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to see if she can put you in contact with any support groups! The article is about one poor girl that had seizures so classmates really gave her a hard time. But it applies more then that. I wish you luck.
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Isabel! I know exactly what you're talking about because I have a 12 y/o DS that's pretty much been in the same situation this year... I've beat my head against that wall for so long but still can't come up with any answers to the issue. Plenty of pixies to you and your DS that the correct answers are found by one or both of you!

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