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Old 09-09-2006, 02:11 PM   #1
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Have You Ever Gone on Vacation w/a Friend but No Family?---Update in First Post

My friend Ryan LOVES going to Mexico every January, but this year his boyfriend is unwilling to go. Ryan wants to go so badly that he's offered to pay my way on an all-inclusive resort for 10 days. Wally's a-ok with it and I was all excited about it last night, but now that I've slept on it I feel a little weird. I'm sure we'd have an awesome time and all, but 10 days is a little long, and that was already talked down from 14 days, I don't think he wants to go for 7. I don't want to look a gift horse in the teeth, but what if we start hating each other? I miss Wally already.

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I'm not going. I was feeling kind of weird about it and then I found out that the bf was alllll upset about it, so it's just not worth the drama. I appreciate your comments, they did help me feel less apprehensive about it--but he wanted to do all the crazy excursions that I'm too afraid to do, and frankly I'm relieved. Have fun on all your vacations!
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Yes, twice! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
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Kris and I did a 5 night trip to WDW in March and I did a 4 night Girls cruise in December. I would go for it!
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I travel with friends all the time - the trick is to find a little bit of "me" time away from the person/group so that you don't get sick of each other.

I say go for it!!!
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I would go Rachel!!
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Re: Have You Ever Gone on Vacation w/a Friend but No Family?

Well, I have been a couple of times with Emilie in tow . . . but will be heading out on a (almost) week-long road trip in early November before I move. That's gonna be JUST me and some friends!

Mike goes all the time on short trips with his buddies.

I think it's good to have a little "apart" time every once in a while from the DH . . . but like Terri said, just make sure you get some "you" time in there at some point during the trip. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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I travel with friends all the time - the trick is to find a little bit of "me" time away from the person/group so that you don't get sick of each other.

I say go for it!!!

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[img]/ubb/images/graemlins/yeahthat.gif[/img] EXACTLY!
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I've done a few days with girlfriends to get away from our kids (this was when we all had toddlers) and to go Christmas shopping. It was a blast, and the reunion with the DH was great!
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I've met girlfriends in NYC several times over the past few years. I say if you want to go and Wally is okay with it, then go.

Ten days is pretty long though - - can you talk it down some more? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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I spent 7 days with my "best" friend one time. It was okay at first, but by the 6 day we weren't too happy with each other. I agree with "apart" time. My friend and I should have tried that!!
If Wally is okay with it and you feel comfortable going, then go for it. Just remember to spend some time apart.
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Ten days is a long time, but....... opportunities like this don't come up very often. I say go. I'm sure you'll think of him shoveling snow from the Foss Drive while you're basking, but like any vacay, the time will fly and you'll be soooo happy to see him when you get back. Good luck with your decision!
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Glad you made your decision Rachel, if it had been a shorter trip it probably would have been ok but it was a long time to be away without your DH.

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Well, in 47 days, 6 hours, 1 minute, 11 seconds I'll be heading to WDW with Tara again. I think our vacation is 10 days. This will be my first trip with no family in tow, but I've already roomed with her on a couple other vacations with my kids, so I know we are compatible travel companions/roomates. It always ends up that we don't spend 100% of our time together, and this trip will continue that trend, but we sure enjoy our vacations together.

I think that if you and Ryan are good friends now, you will probably still be friends. He probably knows your faults and you know his, right? So long as there's no surprises, I'm sure you two will be fine. You could always plan to go seperate ways for a couple hours every once in a while and then meet up at the pool bar or something.
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Oh you are soooo lucky. No one invites me on an all paid inclusive vacay!

Pat would never say no, but he'd never say yes either. I'm jealous. I love to vacay and he doesn't.
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I've gone with my best friend and my cousin without the fam, and it was wonderful. My best friend and I have our second trip together planned for this coming January. I highly recommend it!
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