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Old 05-15-2006, 02:45 PM   #1
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Surprise, surprise, I know and [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/sorry.gif[/img] It's bad enough that the rain has had DH off work for a week now, but he's really blown it. He only works for 2 builders, one of whom only does a few houses per year, but they are usually big, spendy, and good money makers. He told this builder he wouldn't be ready to start the day they needed him to, so the guy sorta flipped out and said he'd have to get someone else (typical for him). I guess DH lost it at that point and "had words". If I know the builder (which I do), he won't be calling DH for anymore work. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] They've been using him less and less anyway b/c the schedules just haven't been meshing (FIL was so GOOD at that, and I cannot convince him to take over that part of the business again, and I'm not "allowed" [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img])

Anyway, please send pixies that DH will be able to get enough work to get us through the year and huge pixies for a whack upside the head that he'll realize that this isn't working and it's time for a new plan. He keeps looking to me for my tie dye, scrapbooking, sewing/hair bow businesses to take off, but, number 1, I can't support the family and number 2, it's not my job...it's HIS job and he needs to stop moping around and do something about it. This rain just *HAS* to stop... [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
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Did you say hairbows?????? I am always looking for hairbows for my DD who is 4 and I belive the bigger the bow the better. Can I see them on your website?
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I know you said you can't because of your home situation but maybe you should get a job...even part-time outside the house. Is it really just HIS job to support the family?
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I know you said you can't because of your home situation but maybe you should get a job...even part-time outside the house. Is it really just HIS job to support the family?

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I know you said you can't because of your home situation but maybe you should get a job...even part-time outside the house. Is it really just HIS job to support the family?

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[img]/ubb/images/graemlins/082502yes_prv.gif[/img] it is. That was the agreement when we married, that was the agreement when we had more kids. He wants a mid-century wife, I get a mid-century husband. Even when I *DO* go out to teach a class or whatever (like yesterday *and* today), I'm still expected to make a "real" dinner, clean up, vacuum, educate children, do laundry, see to it that children are clean and happy, tuck them in, plus all the other things I have to do (for instance, I'll be up at least another 3 hours working on tie dying, scrapbook pages for clients, and settling in all my stuff from the last 2 classes) That's not to say that I don't enjoy my work now, I really do and it is helping pay some bills, but with my being out of the work force for 11 years now and only having an English degree, there's not a whole lot out there in this little community for me to do that will make anymore than I'm making now. I've done the math and there's not much sense in me spending money on work expenses, just to flip burgers for minimum wage. I'd have to work half an hour a day just to pay for the gas to get there, not to mention having to pay a sitter for the kids on days that he does have work. The idea is for him to learn appropriate management and scheduling techniques (what's so difficult about a Gantt chart?) and NOT to tick off the few contractors he works for by pulling a mini-diva. I could do it, but like I said, I'm not "allowed", since I am female and "know nothing about this kind of business". [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]

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I would have to explain to him that the "mid-century" wife things is out. That he needs to come to reality and realize what century we are in! I would also let him know that if he couldn't keep his part of the "agreement" then I sure wouldn't be able to keep mine. I would then make sure my children were cared for and let him take care of himself!

I am just one of those women that believe we are as equal as men and just as capable, if not more so.
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I would have to explain to him that the "mid-century" wife things is out. That he needs to come to reality and realize what century we are in! I would also let him know that if he couldn't keep his part of the "agreement" then I sure wouldn't be able to keep mine. I would then make sure my children were cared for and let him take care of himself!

I am just one of those women that believe we are as equal as men and just as capable, if not more so.

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I agree if there isn't enough work the bills still have to be paid and kids still have financial needs.
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I know there are several single mothers on the boards that do just fine without a man in the house. Just from what you have said in the past it seems as if you husband is more of a hindrance to then helpful. That is just MHO. Take it or leave it.
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