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Old 03-08-2010, 06:24 PM   #1
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Stabbed in the back by school - vent UPDATED

I am so frustrated and angry right now I feel like crawling out of my skin. Perry, who's Autistic, goes to middle school and is in a separate class because of it. He will never be mainstreamed (with non sped. kids). His school likes to mainstream spec. ed. kids for specials (art, gym etc) and for a myriad of reasons I told them I did not want Perry mainstreamed for these and made sure it was in his education plan and it was very, very clear to his teachers, aides, principal et al. Perry comes home today and tells me he's been going to mainstreamed tech ed. and gym. They deliberately went behind my back and did what they wanted to do even though they had to legally commit to the agreements in his ed. plan. I am furious! I called our advocate and she and I are calling the school tomorrow and dealing with this and requesting a meeting. I am currently waiting on a pro bono lawyer b/c Perry needs to be transferred to a private school which will meet his needs better and I can't believe they'd pull something like this knowing that's going on! I am so sick and tired of dealing with all the dog doo from the school system! I just had to get that out, thanks for listening!!
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It's in his IEP and they totally disregarded it? That's not right I'm glad you have the advocate working with you to address it tomorrow. I hope you are able to get it straightened out right away.

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It's in his IEP and they totally disregarded it? That's not right
It's not right, but it happens a lot! We were always fighting the school to keep to the IEP. The schools here found that most parents wouldn't fight them, and it's easier and cheaper to mainstream.


I'm sorry the school is doing that to Perry. How is he feeling about being put in a "regular" class? Many, many pixies for you and Perry. I hope you find some resolution.
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It's not right, but it happens a lot! We were always fighting the school to keep to the IEP. The schools here found that most parents wouldn't fight them, and it's easier and cheaper to mainstream.


I'm sorry the school is doing that to Perry. How is he feeling about being put in a "regular" class? Many, many pixies for you and Perry. I hope you find some resolution.
You know, it's not even so much about how he feels about it really. It's more about what I know for a fact is going on while he's in those classes. They wanted to put him in them to "enrich" him which is a joke. We tried it for a while last year and in art, he talked to himself and colored totally separate from what the class was doing. In gym, while the others were playing basketball, he talked to himself and ran around in circles. In music he had to be removed. Then beyond that they aren't giving him the sensory integration or OT therapy that he desperately needs. This is why I'm getting a lawyer; I'm on a "list". Thanks, Teresa!
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Lots of prayers and I've also had IEP's disregarded in the past. Its frustrating and ILLEGAL! Keep us informed...
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Speaking as a person who does middle school scheduling (please dont hate me) and as a mom to a child on the spectrum...could it have been an oversight, easily corrected with a phone call? For much of the schedule, kids are "mass assigned" to classes. Then an individual has to go through and "tweak" it. Sometimes, the person who knows the IEP the best is not the one doing the tweakings. Often, a knowledgeable guidance counselor will know as much (or more) about her (or his) student needs and know the particulars. But ultimately, the case manager is responsible for communicating that information. Is has also happened in my school, that a principal, or someone else not familar with the kids, goes through the schedule to balance things, often reversing the particulars that we planned. (That is frustrating!). If its in the IEP that he cannot have mainstream classes, then he cannot. That is final.

Is is possible that they created an adaptive section (we have adapted PE, and Art) and many of the kids feel like they are going to a "regular" class like all the others. Hang in there and good luck to you and your son.
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Speaking as a person who does middle school scheduling (please dont hate me) and as a mom to a child on the spectrum...could it have been an oversight, easily corrected with a phone call? For much of the schedule, kids are "mass assigned" to classes. Then an individual has to go through and "tweak" it. Sometimes, the person who knows the IEP the best is not the one doing the tweakings. Often, a knowledgeable guidance counselor will know as much (or more) about her (or his) student needs and know the particulars. But ultimately, the case manager is responsible for communicating that information. Is has also happened in my school, that a principal, or someone else not familar with the kids, goes through the schedule to balance things, often reversing the particulars that we planned. (That is frustrating!). If its in the IEP that he cannot have mainstream classes, then he cannot. That is final.

Is is possible that they created an adaptive section (we have adapted PE, and Art) and many of the kids feel like they are going to a "regular" class like all the others. Hang in there and good luck to you and your son.
Thanks! The guidance counselor is useless at his school. The reason I was so angry over this is because we had a meeting with my two advocates, the two spec. needs teachers, the dimwit counselor and the school shrink and I made it very, very clear many times that Perry wasn't to be in mainstreamed classes or in it's viscinity and yep, it's in the IEP. It must be crazy being the parent of a special needs child and working in the school system! Thanks again!!
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It must be crazy being the parent of a special needs child and working in the school system! Thanks again!!
I am better at my job since becoming a parent. I am better at accessing needed resources for my DD (and DS with ADHD, but he is not on an IEP) because of my first hand knowledge of the school system. In turn, I am better at working with parents in my system because I do know both sides, and want to open uo the "secret" information. I understand that it is fundamentally not fair that my kids wil have the needed support just because I know how to access it. (BTW, I am very much not a dimwitted guidance counselor )
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I am better at my job since becoming a parent. I am better at accessing needed resources for my DD (and DS with ADHD, but he is not on an IEP) because of my first hand knowledge of the school system. In turn, I am better at working with parents in my system because I do know both sides, and want to open uo the "secret" information. I understand that it is fundamentally not fair that my kids wil have the needed support just because I know how to access it. (BTW, I am very much not a dimwitted guidance counselor )
Of course you're not! But, I am really surprised they let you open the secret info! Here it's guarded by dragons in the guise of administrators! That's awesome!
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Of course you're not! But, I am really surprised they let you open the secret info! !
Its the combination of tenure (sometimes works to the benefit of students) and having a big mouth!
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