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Old 08-13-2015, 09:52 AM   #1
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Venting - sorry to rant

Some may know that I accepted a job offer... I am thrilled about it, but my current job has been my home for nearly a decade. It is a smidge bittersweet.

Well -- yesterday was horrible. The plan to cross train a nother girl to take over my a few of my jobs went up in smoke. This lady threw a fit -- literal fit. Which makes no sense, as it is some serious job security. Since her dept. is currently twiddling their thumbs. She is a person who is forever negative - everything is an issue - and everyone is out to screw her over. It gets old really fast.

So as if that weren't bad enough - I go to my boyfriends for dinner where he asks about my day, which he already knew was bad, and deems it an excellent time to play devil's advocate, and really come at me about how I can't care, and who cares, and all this.... and then to add fuel to the fire starts bragging about how no one has ever told him he has a bad attitude....... to which my reply was "allow me to be the first then - because right now you kinda suck" . Channeled my inner toddler on that one! So not only was I being arguing with, he also managed to make me feel bad about myself because his attitude is so much more superior to mine.

I mean really - why is (almost) everyone so much more intersted in arguing that listening lately. It is exhausting.

Sorry to vent here - but I am so over it guys! Hoping today is much better.
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Old 08-13-2015, 10:15 AM   #2
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I hope today is better for you as well. I've had the rough patches it will get better.
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Old 08-13-2015, 10:19 AM   #3
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It does always seem that way - when you are already having "one of those days" everyone & their mother jumps on too. Keep your confidence & your eyes on the prize per se. [emoji14]ixies that today will be a much better day!
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Vent away!! Work really has a way of getting into the way of my vacation time and we all need to vent
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I hope today is better for you as well. I've had the rough patches it will get better.
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It does always seem that way - when you are already having "one of those days" everyone & their mother jumps on too. Keep your confidence & your eyes on the prize per se. [emoji14]ixies that today will be a much better day!
Isn't that the truth!!?? I guess I wasn't expecting it from the bf.

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Vent away!! Work really has a way of getting into the way of my vacation time and we all need to vent
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Sounds like the girl you are training likes being able to twiddle her thumbs and doesn't want to take on extra work. Sorry you have to deal with her.

Good for you telling your BF that he was being a jerk toward you. Hopefully he thought about it a bit and will be take it to heart.
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This is a safe place to vent.
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Sorry your 'replacement' is being difficult. I think we've all encountered the 'Debbie Downer' of the workforce. Funny how everyone has one, but no-one can get rid of her! Hope today is much better.
Also, sorry about your BF. Sounds like he was trying too hard to 'solve' the issue. Men think they need to solve our problems for us, or make them not seem as bad. Why don't they realize all they really need to do is listen and make sounds like they agree - our day sucked. All we need is confirmation that we didn't have a good day. Hopefully, again, today is better.
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Sorry about your day. We all have co workers like that. I also have the middle schoolers that fight about everything and play not so nice games with each other.
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Sounds like you had a bad day. Hang in there though because you'll be in your new job soon. Hopefully things get better.
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A long time ago, a good friend taught me the "aw, honey" technique. When someone complains or whines about something, don't offer advice or tell them "what they should do." Just say, "Aw, honey" as sympathetically as you can. It works for me every time. It gives the complainer the sympathy they need to hear quickly and easily. I think you need to pass this tip to your BF.
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I read this after a long day in court and as I was reading it, I thought your BF may be right. He may not have handled the best way but if he was saying you don't really need to be too concerned about the person you are training, I 100% agree. You are leaving, if she doesn't want to be trained leave it up to your supervisor. No one can do it all, and quite frankly as soon as you leave, the remaining staff will need to figure it out.

IMO not worth you get hot and bothered about. Hope today was better.
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Vent away! People in general are turning into big jerks everywhere. This new generation of workers are some of the laziest people on the planet. We have employees come in and actually say that they don't want to work but just want to do the minimum and get paid, yes they say this out loud!?! Your BF should have just let you vent and been supportive. Everyone has a bad day and should be able to vent, its not healthy keeping that stuff in. So NO ONE should tell you that you should just "let it go". That's just a jerk comment IMO(and not helpful, we know we need to let it go but to do that we need to let it out). Vent it out and then be free of it. We all have our ways of dealing with stuff. I am one of those that has to let it out. So if I have a bad day I go home and tell my hubby and he sympathises and I feel better. Hope you have a better week. And you can vent to my anytime sister!
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Vent all you want, sometimes you just need to get it out. I hope you have better days ahead.
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