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Old 08-18-2010, 03:41 PM   #1
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How do you keep from killing the surprise??

Just paid the downpayment for a trip in February.

We just got back from a trip in July and my DH asked when we can go back. I was emailing the travel agent and got a price for a Feb Trip and decided it was just to much at this point in time. Low and behold, our dining plan is now free. The trip is now totally reasonable. Talked to the DH and he was undecided. So, I am now paying for the whole trip as a surprise Christmas gift for the DH.

Its very hard to not talk to him about it. Purchased our plane tickets this morning, made all the dining reservations and if all goes according to plan, the trip should be totally paid for by the end of October.

Dont know how I am going to keep it from him for that long.

Thanks for letting me get that out. Goodness knows I am going crazy not telling him about it.

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2/14: Dinner at Le Cellier (his fav from July)
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2/18: Dinner at Rose & Crown Pub
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Sounds great...Im sure you guys will have a blast.
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keeping it a surprise!
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We're doing our first surprise trip in Nov. DH knows but DD doesn't.
I've found that planning the "how to tell her" and anticipating the reaction makes keeping the surprise worth it.
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We're doing our first surprise trip in Nov. DH knows but DD doesn't.
I've found that planning the "how to tell her" and anticipating the reaction makes keeping the surprise worth it.

Epcot was his favorite park. So I am thinking of getting an Epoct shirt to wrap and putting the flight info/intinerary in the gift also.
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It's so hard to keep such a great secret -- but you always have us to chat with!
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I would never be able to keep it a secret. Never never never. I would EXPLODE with well excitement before Christmas.

Good luck to you!!!
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I know exactly what you mean! My dad, brother, and I are planning a surprise Christmas trip for my mom next year and every time I see her I want to tell her!
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I know DF and I are planning a suprise trip for DD.....I want to tell her so bad it gurts. But nope not doing it...my mouth is shut.
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WHAT A WONDERFUL SURPRISE. I WISH SANTA WOULD LEAVE ME A SURPRISE TRIP UNDER THE TREE!!!!
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Good luck!!! I am planning my first ever surprise trip for DD for March! Same thing...booked it cause of the deal, plus we had Southwest credits to use!
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Good luck!!! I am planning my first ever surprise trip for DD for March! Same thing...booked it cause of the deal, plus we had Southwest credits to use!
Didnt have credits to use for the flight, but found one REALLY cheap and out of John Wayne to boot! I was amazed that they were cheaper than flying out of LAX. Yes they have layovers, but nothing more than an hour and we still get into Orlando by 6 pm.
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I've never been able to do a surprise trip. DH has to request vacation 3 or 4 months in advance.

The kids have activities that have to be planned around.

So we all sit down together to plan our trips so there's no surprise trips at our house.
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good luck keeping the secret, shunasee.

i'm planning a surprise trip for my boyfriend, POR dec 12-19. he keeps asking me why i'm spending so much time on the computer lately; i told him i'm planning a surprise and that he'll know eventually. this just makes him frown.

i figure when i ask him to request a week off from work he'll know we're traveling somewhere. not sure yet when/how i'm going to tell him we're going to WDW!
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good luck keeping the secret, shunasee.

i'm planning a surprise trip for my boyfriend, POR dec 12-19. he keeps asking me why i'm spending so much time on the computer lately; i told him i'm planning a surprise and that he'll know eventually. this just makes him frown.

i figure when i ask him to request a week off from work he'll know we're traveling somewhere. not sure yet when/how i'm going to tell him we're going to WDW!
do you know his manager and can request the time off for him? thats what I did. DH's manager just loved what I was doing.

has he ever been to WDW? if so just pick up something small from his fav and do it that way.

Good Luck with your surprise!!
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