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Old 03-24-2010, 09:57 AM   #1
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Just needed to talk about this

I can't stop thinking about this.

Last night we were on our way to go out to dinner. While stopped at a busy intersection my husband and I noticed a woman on one corner and a man on another. They both had these huge cardboard homemade signs. They were hard to see but we finally got a glimpse of what was written.

"Will work for money or food. lost job and almost homeless. Need money for food and diapers" And there was a beautiful picture of the two of them and their young child.

I was heartbroken over this. Here I am going out to a dinner that I'm sure will cost us about $50 and these people need food and diapers for their child. I went through the mall parking lot and back down to where they were. When we stopped to give them the money the man repeatedly asked if he could do any work for us. We said no, that this was a gift. I gave them $20.

I don't know if I did the right thing. I don't know if their story was real. All I know is my heart really broke for this couple. I did what I thought I should do.

I can't stop thinking about them. I just needed to talk to some friends about this.
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Old 03-24-2010, 10:06 AM   #2
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You did the right thing. And God bless you for caring - this country and the whole world would be better off if there were more people who like you
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Old 03-24-2010, 10:16 AM   #3
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you are a very kind and generous person. and there is a real possiblity that they are indeed in need of help. a close friend of mine has worked with the homeless population in town since the 70s. she knows so many deserving folks. all that said, she also knows those who are homeless who do this and make several hundred a day and the money doesn't go to food and diapers. it is so hard not to get jaded about this especially when she can call these folks by name.

i will pass along the advice that she gives folks. follow your heart and help by working or donating to food banks, shelters (my small town has a woman's, men's and family shelters), soup kitchens, voluntary action centers, wardrobes, ......the list is long. i used to volunteer for a group that collected baby clothes and items and we put together enough things to help people though a few months of baby times. there are so many places out there and they so need our help in these tough times. i know our food bank is struggling to help all the families these days. Thanks for your kindness and open heart.
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So your safest bet is to do as the poster above said and donate to the food banks. My aunt works at one, and she said that nothing makes her madder than for someone to walk up talking on their cell phone to collect their free groceries! It happens all the time.
Many people have cell phones b/c they cannot afford regular phones. There are so many pay as you go phones now. You also have to remember that in the past few years a lot of people are now struggling to make ends meet. Going to food banks, church food closets, etc are helping a lot of people have the money to pay for rent, or a mortgage, clothes for them & their children, put gas in the car for work. Not everyone who uses a food bank is homeless, most of the time they are having a hard time staying afloat.
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You did a good thing there.
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i've never had someone who wasn't really in need not ask for their help in return-I think it was real otherwise he wouldn't have asked to work-we tried to help someone once by buying them food because they asked for money for food but when we offered he refused and wanted the money instead so in that case he probably was wanting something else. I think you did the right thing!
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I think you did the right thing Ginger! The world needs more people who will take the time like that for another human being.
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Very sweet! I think you did the right thing. Thank you for loving on them.

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Your heart was in the right place, & your intentions were good. Should the folks you gave it to be not on the UP & UP, that doesn't diminish your "pass it on" moment. A leap of faith sometimes is like that. Unfortunately our world today makes it hard for the people who are honestly in need of help to get it because of the schemers. I hope a child was fed last night thanks to you!
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You did a wonderful thing!
As others have said, it may have been legitimate or may not have been but what you did was.
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As others have said, it may have been legitimate or may not have been but what you did was.


However, I'd also recommend that people give to reputable food banks and shelters -- with your donations, these charitable organizations are able to purchase larger amounts of food or clothing from merchants who give them a discount than any individual could purchase for themselves. It's a way to make your donations go farther...
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However, I'd also recommend that people give to reputable food banks and shelters -- with your donations, these charitable organizations are able to purchase larger amounts of food or clothing from merchants who give them a discount than any individual could purchase for themselves. It's a way to make your donations go farther...
Thanks Eileen! That is an excellent point. We definitely do that as well.

It was just one of those in the moment type things. It is honestly very unlike me to do something like that. But I really felt in my heart that there was a need there. I followed my heart.
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I think you did a very good deed and I would have done the same thing
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