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Old 08-30-2008, 02:11 PM   #1
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What If We Get Seperated??

This is the first trip where it will be just me and my son. Usually we have enough people to make sure everyone stays together. I am worried that we will get seperated, which has NEVER happened in the past. I don't know what to tell him to do. I was considering getting him a cheap cell phone so he could call me but then I realized he usually has on gym shorts with no pockets and the phone would have nowhere to go. I don't know what kind of plan to have in place should we be seperated. Any advice for me?
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How old is your son?

I live near a Six Flags and one thing that I see alot is people wear the same neon colored clothes - for instance you'd both wear day-glo yellow t-shirts. If he's old enough for a cell phone though that probably wouldn't work.

Other than that, I'd say just continuously discuss it. Like, when you go to the bathroom, instead of saying "I'll meet you outside", say "I'll be by that garbage can and if you're out before me, just wait there for me."

Some cell phones do have little clips though, so that might not be a horrible idea.
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Hi,

What is below helped me tremendously!!

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I have two bits of advice:
Tell your kids to find a mom if they get lost -- find a woman with kids. No offense to guys out there, but the numbers are pretty overwhelming when it comes to predators -- they are mostly male. And no offense to the male CMs, either -- I'm just saying, a lost kid is better off finding a mom. A mom is going to stay with that kid until that kid is safe back with his/her mom.
Also, make sure your kids know their own full name AND your name. If all they know is "mommy" or "grandma Smith", it's not going to help. I practice with my kids, and do a little drill "little boy, what is your name? What's your mommy's name?" It's the first thing a cop or someone is going to ask them, and if they are confident about the answers, they won't be so scared to answer more questions.
Thanks for the bracelet and bead necklace idea. I'm totally going to do that with my boys, and I'm sure they will love their special name Disney bracelets!


Thank You soooo much for this post!!
Twice in 9 days we lost our dd or ds.
It is hard to identify cast members when you are small because they are all dressed differently. So, I told them if we get separated to find a mother with kids and tell her you are lost.

We were in the living in the seas pavilion and ds9 had to go to the bathroom. My dh took him, and my ds7 said he needed to go too. I told him to hurry and catch up to his father. I watched until he was next to him. DH didn't realize DS7 was with him.
He met me with ds9 and he asked were DS7 was......

I alerted a cast member right away that my ds was missing. Another cast member radioed his description to other cast members in the pavillion. Within 5 minutes we found him cluthing the arm of a wonderful mother who was wiping away his tears. DS refused to go with the cast member who had located him. He told him that he was supposed to stay with a mommy if he got lost. He gave my cell number and my full name to the mother(not the cm) and he was crying, but he felt safe.

Thank You so much for this advice.

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What a great idea! And one that I never would have thought of. You guys are so right, who better to keep my son until I got there. He is 8 but I still don't like the thought of him getting away from me. Like I said, we usually travel in large groups so it is easier to keep track of the little kids with us. He knows my full name and my phone number including area code so once he finds someone he should be able to get me with no issues. I was also considering making him a dog tag at my local Wal-Mart to wear around his neck. The tag would include his name and my number should he get lost, this could come in handy.
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Another thing I heard is take a piece of tape (masking tape, I guess) and write his name and your number, and tape the tape to the inside of his shirt (so that random people can't see it). That way if he gets terrified or can't remember, at least he'll know to look at the tape. I'm sure everything will be fine!
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Also, was just listening to Martha Stewart and she was doing some scrapbooking thing about WDW? And she said that she was told by CM's that no child has ever been lost there...HA!
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Also, was just listening to Martha Stewart and she was doing some scrapbooking thing about WDW? And she said that she was told by CM's that no child has ever been lost there...HA!

Ha. Of all the places packed with people we are supposed to believe no child has ever been lost there? Right....well, I guess they aren't really lost, they know where they are, at Disney! Apparently it is the parents who get lots from the kiddies.
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I've given DD a business card sized piece of card stock with my cell # on it. She knows to find a mommy with children, and say, "I can't find my mama, will you please call her and tell her where I am?" We've actually practiced it with friends (and 1 really nice stranger) at other parks in our area. She keeps the card in her shoe or in her little fannypack where she also keeps her pressed penny stuff... she's 5yo btw
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Another thing I've heard is to make sure that your child can describe what you're wearing in addition to knowing your name etc. My kids are older (9 and 12) and we always talk about where we're going next once we leave a ride or attraction and if we should get separated, go there. We've been doing Disney for several years now and am happy to report we've gotten separated. I'm sure your trip will go smoothly as well.
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That CM is right - I don't think there's ever been a time when a kid has been permanently lost.

My first recommendation is to teach your son how to recognize Cast Members (name tag is the best way). Every Cast Member is trained how to handle lost children. Meantime, other park guests (moms or dads), may not necessarily know the best way to help (they might just wander the park in search of you, without getting help from Disney). If you get separated, you can go to any shop, and tell a cast member that you need to be reunited with your child. They go to a computer terminal to check the message system, or pick up the telephone and call a central number. The cast member your child has hooked-up with also uses the central message system. They'll match the two of you up very quickly.

Many of the other suggestions here are also helpful, depending on the child's age. Disney cast will look for name tags and other ID on/inside clothing for smaller children. Older children will be good with cell phones, etc. You can also select specific rendezvous points in the park, but don't be too general about things. "Meet me right here!" works a whole lot better than "Meet me at the castle." The castle is much too big - you could both be there and still not hook up.

Don't worry too much about having pockets for a cell phone. There are cell phones intended for kids that have lanyards (much more secure than a child's pocket).
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Great tips everyone. I've started to work on my kids in general about the LOOK FOR A MOMMY rule. I have the id tags that velcro around shoe laces.
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Before we travel I always make a little laminated ID Card that my girls keep on them that has my cell phone #, name of all the trusted adults in our party, (in case we seperate the CM knows its OK to release my child to my family) and their allergies in case of a medical emergency. Also I take a picture of both of my kids with my digital camera so I can show people what they are wearing. This has come in handy when my youngest wandered off at a 4th of July Festival. (SCARY)
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What great ideas!!!! Thank you all for sharing your thoughts and ideas with me....I keep checking back to see what other creative things you guys come up with!
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A Little More Security

Before we go away on vacation we watch the video by Adam Walsh, The Safe Side, I believe they call it? Anyhow, it helps teach your children about "Don't Knows" and who are your safe side adults. You can also let your children know how to recognize cast members they can ask for help as well. We also bought "tattoos" that say if I'm lost call xxx-xxx-xxxx (your custom number is used). They stay for at least the duration of the day or longer in some case. You can order different allotments of them.
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