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Old 09-22-2007, 03:52 PM   #1
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Tonight could be a real pain in the.......

Tonight we are having a sock hop 50's dinner fund raiser down at the Elks. That part isn't the pain. The pain would be Judy. Judy is a co-worker/friend. She is Cheryl's and my biggest pain in the patootie friend. Today is her 50th birthday. We forgot this when we scheduled tonights fund raiser. Judy is the friend that always whines, mopes about, "Oh whoa is me", I haven't got a man in my life, I work harder than anyone else, I still think I am gorgeous and every man wants me but they aren't good enough, girl. I won't frighten you with an up close picture. I am one of those that believes beauty comes from within but even that beauty has withered and died.

Anywho.....we decided to throw her birthday after the sock hop. This way all the people that she THINKS are her friends (other co-workers and some of the Elks members) will be there. We (Cheryl and I) know this is the only way others will attended willingly.

What I am afraid of is since I am fairly vocal and we have been trying for over two years to get her over herself that if she whines JUST ONCE I will unload on her. So what do I do? Do I bite my tongue for one more night so she won't slit her wrists (not an exaggeration) and let her throw a fit and whine like she always does without repercussions? Or do we finally say "JUDY get over yourself!"?

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Don't ruin her birthday. Do your best to ignore her complaints.
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I would do my best to ignore her tonight, since you are all celebrating her birthday. I know a couple of people like Judy. It really is a tough call. They drive me crazy, but I worry about what would happen if I decided to tell them how they are coming across to others. So, I kind of know what you are talking about.

Sending pixies your way for tonight, Lori!
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Normally, I'd tell you to give her "heck", but it is her birthday...as rude as I can be, and as firm of a believer in not coddling ANYONE, even I wouldn't be so mean as to do it on someone's birthday. Give her a free pass tonight...and then get on her tomorrow
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Wait until later.
Then, one night before she has the chance to start whining - start talking about someone anonymous (you could say some lady named Teresa on the message boards) who always whines about how horrid her life is, and that she won't do anything to change it. And that you just hate it when people are like that - it boring!
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I agree. Let her have her night of glory. Save the cold, hard truth of reality for another day.

I had a co-worker that was fifty years old and everytime we went to lunch, she hit on the twenty something waiters (she has a son that is almost that age!). She was a 30 tripple A at best, but came to work several times a week in a push up bra and a shirt that hung down below it. I didn't have the heart to tell her that she wasn't "all that" and break the news to her that no man in his right mind was impressed by her pitiful display of her itty, bitty, barely there womanhood. Thankfully, she found a job elsewhere before I reached my point of no return and snapped on her and blurted out the facts!

I feel for you!
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Don't ruin her day. 50 is bad enough when you are "alone in the world". Don't add insult to injury by telling her to grow up - save that for tomorrow! SAM
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No advice, sorry, but many . Maybe she'll surprise you and not complain tonight!
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Well she didn't surprise us. She was herself and more. She even left early. Which wasn't really a bad thing. After she left, those that did stay once they saw her actions ONE MORE TIME said to Hell with her. We stayed and had a good time without the whiner. We all sat for a little bit and discussed what had happened for the jillionth time. Then we said we were thru, and I am pretty sure no one cares to try again. We will still be polite as that is what we do, but we will no longer care whether or not she is included in anything ever again.

So yes we let he have her night but that was the last.
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I think you have been more than patient with this woman, and it doesn't sound like you will be losing much by leaving this relationship. If a friendship causes more grief than good, let it go.

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Some people just don't see it, no matter what, and truly think they are alone in the world or the world is against them. It's sad, but you can only do so much as well.
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Some folks just cant be happy no matter how hard they try. You did well....im not sure i could have passed up an opportunity to tell her about herself...even on her birthday and she will soon figure out that her time has run out once you guys start to party and have fun without her.....

Heres to a successful sockhop and good riddence birthday\going away party !!!!!

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